Harry Truman and Dick Cheney, Notable BILs of P.E.O.s

Hemmerle, “H.B.” Williams was a Chicago businessman. His wife, Lucinda Laura “Lulu” Corkhill, was one of the first initiates of the P.E.O. chapter at Iowa Wesleyan University after it was founded on January, 1869. She was 14 at the time and was enrolled in IWU’s preparatory department. Lulu went on to play a major role in the establishment of the Illinois State Chapter of P.E.O., but H.B. has a place in P.E.O.’s history, too.

H.B. is the original “B.I.L.”* and he gave that title to the husbands of the women who wore the P.E.O. star. The meaning he gave to the term was “Brothers-in-law,” since their wives are P.E.O. “sisters.” Some chapters like to think it means “Boy I love” or “Brothers in love.” It is pronounced B-I-L, not “bill.” H.B. shared the story of B.I.L.s in written form and was an amusing and amiable speaker at many a P.E.O. function talking about the history of B.I.L.s.

Only one U.S. President can claim the B.I.L. title. He is Harry Truman, husband of Bess Truman, a charter member of Chapter S, District of Columbia. The Trumans entertained Chapter S at Blair House, on the Presidential yacht, and in the White House.

May 1948 P.E.O. Record

Vice President Dick Cheney, B.I.L. of Lynn Cheney, Chapter AC, Wyoming is the only Vice President I know of who is a B.I.L. If there are others, please let me know.

The P.E.O. Sisters facebook group has this list of other notable B.I.L.s. Although some of the wives may not be current members of a chapter, “once a P.E.O., always a P.E.O.” comes into play.

Other B.I.L.s in government:

Montana Governor Tim Babcock (1962-69), B.I.L. of Betty Babcock

Admiral William J. Crowe, Jr., United States Navy, Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff and ambassador to the UK; B.I.L. of Shirley Crowe, Chapter J, Virginia

Senator Everett Dirksen (1959-69), B.I.L. of Louella Dirksen, Chapter AS, Illinois

Senator Jon Kyl (1995-2013 and 2018)

Joint Chiefs of Staff General John Shalikashvili, United States Army; B.I.L. of Joan Shalikashvili, Chapter EM, Washington

Chief Justice Earl Warren; B.I.L. of Nina Elisabeth Warren, Chapter EQ, California

Nina and Earl Warren with Dorothy and Frank Weller at the 1947 Convention of Supreme Chapter of P.E.O. (now International Chapter). Dorothy presided at this convention.

B.I.L.s in space (NASA Astronauts, etc )

Francis “Bud” Coenen, director of NASA”s Apollo 11 that first put men on the moon. He was a part of every Apollo mission.

Tony England, B.I.L. of Susan Stretchberry England, Chapter DL, Michigan

Alan Shepard, B.I.L. of Louise Brewer Shepard, Chapter AY, Texas

Loren Shriver, B.I.L. of Diane Shriver, Chapter GJ, Colorado

Other B.I.L.s of wide renown:

Brad Anderson, cartoonist, creator of Marmaduke comic strip, B.I.L. of Barbara Anderson, Chapter IZ, Texas

Tom Brokaw, B.I.L. of Meredith Brokaw of Chapter K, South Dakota. Meredith also attended Cottey College.

Dr. Norman Vincent Peale, B.I.L. of Ruth Stafford Peale, Chapter G, New York

Sam Walton of WalMart, B.I.L. of Helen Walton, Chapter V, Arkansas

*Somewhere along the line, the periods came out of B.I.L., and now the P.E.O. Style Guide has it as BIL.

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“With Malice Towards None”

I am caught in a perpetual game of catch-up, about 10 days in on a two-week stint digging deep into history. My brain is fried with facts and figures and hints of personality about people I’ve never met. In my spare time, I am on deadline for an article in the winter edition of my organization’s magazine. Although it is to be only 500 words, those words are slow in hitting the target.

Searching for some inspiration and a quote or two from a voice from the past, I stumbled upon this editorial. It could have been written ten minutes ago. Only a handful of women who read this in a fresh-from-the-mailbox edition of this magazine are still around and they are hitting the century mark. But how timely and appropriate it is to all our organizations!

In these days of whirling events and changing values, we who have been granted the privilege of fraternity membership must assume a responsibility proportionate to the benefits received. Ours is the task of so using our influence that fine things such as our rituals declare may not perish from an unhappy world. Ours is a double moral obligation; first, so to live with the world at large that it is a better place even in some small sense because of our existence, whatever may be our special interests, whether they be political campaigns (as now when we write), civic affairs, home management, business, or family relations; and second, so to live within XXX that we realize to the utmost the possibilities for good of the Fraternity. In the activities of our chapters and our alumnae clubs we share in something different from the agenda of ordinary social clubs or political organizations.

Through our more than seventy-three years of life we have developed a type of organization that has always been outstanding in charity and fairness of view, far removed from taint of ruthless politics or unworthy methods. Seldom indeed in our history have we seen any play of politics; seldom have the ruthless and ugly methods such as have sometimes disgraced our national political scene shown themselves in the gatherings of our own or any other college fraternity. And this is right; a fraternity should differ from other organizations in the controlling, lasting quality of its bond, in its common ground of friendship between members, in its basis of spiritual interest and enlightened thinking.

More than ever in such troubled times as these must that strong tie be respected. These are days for clear thinking, unswayed by unfair tricks or methods aimed at the overthrow of existing strength. In all such organizations as ours, changes will come, and rightly so, when needed, or when demanded by a majority of the membership; such changes will be without value unless they are gained through a continuance of the fair play and honorable conduct of her members for which XXX has been known since her founding, ‘with malice towards none, with charity for all.’

Adele Taylor Alford, Arrow Editor, 1940
The view from my window, July 2019
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Kappa Sigma Honors Chi Omega Founder at 150th

On Saturday night, Kappa Sigma celebrated 150 years at a banquet during the organization’s 72nd Bienneial Grand Conclave. The festivities took place in Charlottesville, Virginia, where the fraternity was founded in 1869.

The room where Kappa Sigma was founded on the lawn at the University of Virginia.

Chi Omega and Kappa Sigma share a very special connection. Dr. Charles Richardson helped found Chi Omega in 1895. He was a Kappa Sigma and a Chi Omega. He was a dentist in Fayetteville, Arkansas and he was affectionately known as “Sis Doc.”

Dr. Charles Richardson, aka “Sis Doc”

Lyn Harris and Shelley Potter, Chi Omega’s Archivist and National President respectively, were guests at the banquet. One of the evening’s highlights was Dr. Charles Richardson’s posthumous induction into Kappa Sigma’s Hall of Honor, a distinct honor given to only 22 men thus far.

Chi Omega presented this framed photo of Doc Sis with members of Psi Chapter, Chi Omega’s founding chapter at the University of Arkansas

Lyn Harris is a woman of many talents and she is a good detective. Earlier this year she was researching Richardson’s family tree. She discovered a great-grand-nephew, Guy Adamson, who is an alumnus of Kappa Sigma from the Wofford College. She said he had no idea about his famous relative. Adamson and his wife attended the festivities and Adamson accepted Richardson’s award.

Kappa Sigma’s Executive Director Mic Wilson, Dr. Richardson’s great-grand-nephew Guy Adamson, and Chi Omega’s Archivist Lyn Harris

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P.E.O. International Presidents AND Sorority Women

Congratulations to Cathy Clark Moss, Alpha Sigma Alpha, as she begins her term as International President of the P.E.O. Sisterhood.

Here is the list of P.E.O. Presidents of International Chapter who are sorority women:

Chellie Stevens Wright, 1937-39, Gamma Phi Beta

Laura Storms Knapp, 1949-51, Pi Beta Phi

Nell Farrell Stevenson, 1955-57, Kappa Delta

Alice Spensley Rinehart, 1957-59, Alpha Gamma Delta

Margaret Emily Stoner, 1959-61, Kappa Alpha Theta

Irene S. Van Brunt, 1963-65, Kappa Kappa Gamma

Amy Olmstead Welch, 1965-67, Alpha Gamma Delta

Ethel O. Gardner, 1967-69, Delta Delta Delta

Florence Tomlinson Meyers Wallace, 1973-75, Kappa Kappa Gamma (She served as Kappa’s Grand President in 1930, too!)

Lucille H. Smith, 1983-85, Alpha Gamma Delta

Mary Louise Remy, 1989-91, Gamma Phi Beta

Nancy Ryan Jerdee, 1991-93, Gamma Phi Beta

Jean C. Boswell, 1993-95, Chi Omega

Jane Burtis Smith, 1999-2001, Pi Beta Phi

Ann Fields, 2005-07, Alpha Chi Omega

Elizabeth Davenport Garrels, 2009-11, Pi Beta Phi

Susan Reese Sellers, 2011-13, Pi Beta Phi

Maria Baseggio, 2013-15, Sigma Sigma Sigma

Sue Baker, 2017-19, Kappa Kappa Gamma

Brenda Atchison, 2019-21, Alpha Gamma Delta

Patricia Brolin-Ribi, 2021-23, Alpha Phi

Cathy Clark Moss, 2023-, Alpha Sigma Alpha

 

Florence Tomlinson Meyers (Wallace), in 1930, when she was Grand President of Kappa Kappa Gamma. (Photo courtesy of Kappapedia.)

The early years of Pi Beta Phi and P.E.O. are intertwined. Pi Beta Phi’s second chapter was established at Iowa Wesleyan University on December 21, 1868. A month later, January 21, 1869, P.E.O. was founded at IWU by seven young women. Early Iowa Wesleyan women wore the arrow or the star, but never both.

Elizabeth Davenport Garrels, who served as P.E.O.’s International President from 2009-11, is a graduate of Iowa Wesleyan University and was initiated as a member of the Pi Beta Phi chapter there. She owns an arrow and a star. Two additional P.E.O. International Presidents have been members of both P.E.O. and Pi Beta Phi. They are Laura Storms Knapp (1949-51), a member of the Iowa State University chapter, and Jane Burtis Smith (1999-2001), a member of the University of Oklahoma chapter. Susan Reese Sellers (2011-13) became an alumna initiate at the 2017 Pi Beta Phi convention which celebrated Pi Phi’s 150 birthday.

Susan Sellers and Elizabeth Garrels, both Iowa Alphas (IWU) and past International Presidents of P.E.O., Fran Becque, and Sue Robinson, past Pi Beta Phi Grand Council member and a member of P.E.O.

 

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Also Wearing Crowns…

I keep track of the Miss America and Miss USA contestants. Yet, there are some who come to my attention who are not in these two categories. The contestants for the Miss America 2020 competition have been chosen, but here are sorority women wearing other crowns.

Kerri Arnold, a Chi Omega at University of Tennessee – Martin is Miss Tennessee Volunteer.

Kerri Arnold, Miss Tennessee Volunteer with her Chi Omega sisters
She is a Pi Beta Phi at the University of Guelph.
Mikayla Eaton, a Kappa Alpha Theta from Butler University, was named Miss Indiana for America and will compete in the first Miss for America pageant.

Four Miss Teen USA contestants are sorority women:

  • Miss Nebraska Teen USA, Erin Shae Swanson, Kappa Alpha Theta, University of Nebraska
  • Miss New Hampshire Teen USA, Jadyn McDonough, Chi Omega, University of South Carolina
  • Miss New Jersey Teen USA, Ava Tortorici, Delta Phi Epsilon, Montclair State University

While the current Miss USA is not a sorority woman, there will be at least one competing in Miss Universe. She is Cindy Marina, Miss Albania. Marina is a volleyball player for the University of Southern California. She initiated into the Pi Beta Phi chapter at Duke University and affiliated with the chapter at USC when she transferred.

Cindy Marina

Please let me know of any current title holders I may have missed.

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Fifty Years Ago, July 17, 1969

On this day in 1969, three men, the crew of Apollo 11, had just blasted off from the Florida coast and into the great beyond. John Paul Stevens was working in Chicago as a partner at Rothschild, Stevens, Barry and Myers, handling antitrust cases. In 1975, he was appointed Associate Justice of the United States Supreme Court. Justice Stevens died on July 16, 2019. He was a Psi Upsilon at the University of Chicago. He was also a member of Phi Beta Kappa and Phi Delta Phi.

John Paul Stevens

Despite internet reports to the contrary of the three men aboard Apollo 11, only one was a fraternity man. Michael Collins and  Edwin Eugene “Buzz” Aldrin, Jr were West Point graduates where there are no social fraternities. Aldrin was elected to Tau Beta Pi, an engineering honor society. Neil A. Armstrong was a fraternity man, an initiate of the Phi Delta Theta chapter at Purdue University.

Armstrong’s Phi Delt badge is the first fraternity badge to have been to the moon. He was the first man to walk on the moon. Upon his return to Earth, he presented the badge to Phi Delta Theta and it is on display at the fraternity’s headquarters in Oxford. However, contrary to rumor, he never pinned it on the American flag on the moon, nor did he pin his wife’s Alpha Chi Omega badge to the American flag.

A P.E.O. Connection

Aldrin carried with him a P.E.O. Centennial Charm in loving memory of his grandmother, Jessie Ross Moon. She was a member of the first Florida chapter of P.E.O., Chapter A, in Miami, as was his aunt, Madeline Moon Sternberg. His aunt and her chapter presented the charm to P.E.O. at the dedication of the P.E.O. Centennial Center on Sept. 29, 1969 during P.E.O.’s Centennial festivities.

The P.E.O. Centennial charm is at the top of the plaque in the center of the circle.
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Remiss + Catch-up = Today’s GLO History Post

Remiss is my word of the day. I have been remiss in acknowledging many accomplishments of GLO members over the past year. This week, I plan to play catch-up. I am also saddened to hear of the passing of a GLO friend.

Condolences to Sigma Nu

I first met Robert “Bob” McCully at the first Fraternity and Sorority Archivists Conference many moons again. Bob was a gentle soul with a great love for Sigma Nu and its history. I admired his knowledge of his fraternity’s history. My condolences to his family, friends, and Sigma Nu brothers. May his memory be a blessing.

GLO Members in Lego Form

How wonderful are these? The Women of NASA lego set is amazing. Two of the five women, Mae Jemison and Katherine Johnson, are members of Alpha Kappa Alpha. Sally Ride was not a sorority woman. I am unsure about the remaining two, Nancy Grace Roman and Margaret Hamilton. If anyone knows of a GLO connection, please let me know.

Mae Jemison was a member of the Shuttle Endeavour in 1992 and became the first African-American woman to travel in space. She is an honorary member of Alpha Kappa Alpha.

Katherine Coleman Goble Johnson  is a Diamond member of the Lambda Omega Chapter (Newport News, VA) of Alpha Kappa Alpha. She was born on August 26, 1918 and she graduated summa cum laude from West Virginia State College in 1937. A year later, in 1938, she was one of three black graduate students admitted to West Virginia University, and the only female among the three. She taught math for several years until 1953 when she was hired by the National Advisory Committee for Aeronautics (today it is NASA). She retired in 1983.  In 2015, she was awarded a Presidential Medal of Freedom. On May 5, 2016, the 55th anniversary of Shepard’s quick trip into space, the Katherine G. Johnson Computational Research Facility was dedicated at Langley Research Center. 

From Our Alumni Magazines…

I have a tendency to cut things out of magazines. Here are two pages that were on my desk. This one was in the Winter 2018 SIU Alumni News. Congratulations to Silvana Filippello Richardson. Although Alpha Sigma Alpha wasn’t on campus long, amazing women are members of that chapter.

These shout-outs to Kappa Alpha Order appeared in the Washington and Lee Magazine within the last year.

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On the Fourth of July, Seven Years from the Semiquincentennial

Happy 243rd Birthday, America! We’re on the road to the Semiquincentennial / Sestercentennial / Bicenquinquagenary / Quarter-millennial of the United States in 2026. Phi Beta Kappa, the first Greek-letter organization will be celebrating an anniversary at the same time.

A TKE Surprise in the Mail

What a fun surprise it was to spy Tau Kappa Epsilon letters on the cover of the SIU Alumni News when I opened the mailbox yesterday.

Mark Yoder joined the Beta Chi Chapter of Tau Kappa Epsilon in 1977 when he was a computer science major. Dan Sepulveda, a 2009 graduate, served two terms as President of the chapter. His leadership led to the chapter being honored as well as his being named an International Top Teke. The pair met during the planning of the chapter’s 70 anniversary celebration planning and their trek to Mount Kilimanjaro was a fundraiser for the chapter’s support of St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. (The link to the article is not up yet, but I will add it when it is.)

An Amazing $20 Million Effort

Sigma Chi’s commitment to cancer research is impressive and noteworthy. The fraternity has joined in the effort of Sigma Chi Jon Huntsman, the founder of the Huntsman Cancer Foundation, to eradicate cancer. A pledge of $20 million for women’s cancer research and treatment was recently announced at the Huntsman Cancer Institute at the University of Utah. The funds will help support women’s cancer research and treatment at the Institute and the new Kathryn F. Kirk Center for Comprehensive Cancer Care and Women’s Cancers. An additional 11 million has been raised since the partnership between the two entities began.

Three Sigma Chi chapters – University of Utah, Oregon State University and Georgia Southern University – were recognized for their gifts of at least $100,000. Eleven chapters raised at least $50,000 and 37 raised at least $20,000. Kudos to all involved!

Miss America 2020

The post highlighting the sorority women who are competing in Miss America 2020 is up. There are 19 National Panhellenic Conference and one National Pan-Hellenic Council women competing. (If I’ve missed anyone, please let me know.) Miss Virginia, Camille Schrier, a Kappa Delta, likely had the most unique talent entry.

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My GLO Cup Runneth Over

The post GLO convention “hit by a bus” feeling is still with me, but I feel compelled to write a post. The 70th Biennial Pi Beta Phi convention in Washington, D.C., the sixteenth convention I’ve attended, was a very special one for me. Rooming with my daughter, a 2011 convention alumna initiate, was what my soul sorely needed. And being around my Pi Phi friends was a true blessing.

Getting a shout out from Mari Ann Callais during the closing session was a wonderful treat!

Other highlights include meeting friends of my NPC archivist friends, seeing my friends honored with awards, and meeting new friends. (I had a long paragraph naming names, but it disappeared and my brain cells have revolted against recreating it. Sorry dear friends Sue, Sheila, Jan, Kim, Karen, and new friend Andrew. The interwebs are not cooperating today.)

Further evidence that the interwebs are not cooperating today. My search for a photo of Carole Jones receiving Pi Phi’s Friends of Distinction Award was unsuccessful.

Kyle Zimmer, co-founder of First Book, is a frequent Pi Phi convention attendee, but for the first time she sported an arrow badge. She was one of four convention honor initiates. Welcome, Kyle!

One of the bright spots among the challenge of dealing with my father’s health issues and death was a phone call last fall telling me I was the recipient of a Delta Gamma Compass Award. It is given to a non-member of Delta Gamma Fraternity who, “through his/her extraordinary leadership and service, has made a lasting and deeply significant contribution to the Fraternity and/or the interfraternal movement.” Past recipients include Kevin O’Neill, Gregory Parks, Tim Burke, Dave Westol, Cindy Stellhorn, Jean Mrasek, Julie Johnson, Dr. Kent Gardner, and this year’s winner Carole Jones, who led the National Panhellenic Conference through its historic restructuring. I received the award on Saturday at the Heritage Luncheon. What a distinct honor and one I shall never forget. Thank you, Delta Gamma!

My collection of Pi Phi halos, gifts from Pi Phi friends, sustains me between conventions.
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In DC at a #MonumentalSisterhood Convention

I’ve been to every state east of the Mississippi, but I’ve never to Washington, D.C. Well, thanks to Pi Beta Phi, that situation has been rectified. I left home on Wednesday at 3:45 a.m. to arrive in D.C. at about noon. My daughter, who is also my roommate, was on a plane that arrived at about the same time. Our goal was to see some of the sights after we checked in to the hotel.

A conversation with a Pi Phi friend who also arrived early was very fortuitous. She had planned ahead and had secured tickets to Hello Dolly at the Kennedy Center. Betty Buckley, an alumna of Zeta Tau Alpha, is the star of the show. How did I not know that it would be in D.C. when we were there? That’s a rhetorical question as I know very well why I didn’t know and that’s because there are a 1000 things going on in my life right now and it’s mighty amazing that I am even here. But the second I realized that it would just take a couple of clicks and a charge card to secure some tickets, we were on it. A night of walking the Mall turned into a pleasant surprise. It’s a wonderful production and well worth seeing. Kudos to Ms. Buckley!

Yesterday I enlisted my daughter to help set up the convention historical display. It’s about Pi Phi’s ties to D.C., specifically Grace Coolidge, Margaret Truman Daniel, and Barbara Bush. It also covers the 1924 Eastern Conference of Pi Beta Phi when the Grace Coolidge portrait was given to the Nation and the 1962 Convention. That convention was the first one “Sis” Mullis attended. She has not missed one since then!

After that we headed out. The Library of Congress was tops on our list. We toured the Shall Not Be Denied exhibit. Carrie Chapman Catt greeted us. She was also on display at the National Portrait Gallery, another stop on our travels.

Carrie Chapman Catt is in the black dress on the left.

There, I had to see the portrait of my favorite Phi Gamma Delta Calvin Coolidge painted by Joseph Burgess. Not only was it a gift from the fraternity, but Burgess was an initiate of the Syracuse University chapter.

As I headed to dinner, this wonderful elevator door historical display greeted me. What a wonderful surprise! At some point during the past few months, the copy had been run by me, but I had no clue how it would be used. And it warmed my heart when I saw it. Kudos to the creative staff at @PiBetaPhiHQ!

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