Lemuel H. Murlin, Phi Kappa Psi and Kappa Alpha Theta Husband, Confers Doctoral Degree on Grace Coolidge

Grace Goodhue Coolidge

On December 12, 1924, Grace Goodhue Coolidge received an honorary degree from Boston University. President Lemuel H. Murlin gave these remarks, “Grace Goodhue Coolidge, student, university graduate, teacher; daughter, wife, mother; in every station exemplifying the finer qualities of mind and heart we most admire in women; your own works praise you; you have gained the confidence, admiration and love of the American people. Upon the recommendation of the university council I have been authorized by the Board of Trustees of Boston University to admit you to the degree of Doctor of Laws.”

As the purple velvet doctoral hood was placed on her shoulders, the audience burst into applause. “Her smile of thanks was her only acknowledgement of the honor but it was broad enough to carry appreciation to all,” according to the Associated Press report.

The conferring of the degree took place in the Old South Church in front of 1,100 guests. Among them were some of Mrs. Coolidge’s “Round Robins,” a group of Pi Beta Phi friends who wrote a round robin letter. They began the round robin letter in 1915 after the group traveled to the Pi Beta Phi Convention in Berkeley, California and the round robin lasted their entire lives. The round robin was really a series of letters, each written by a participant; the packet of letters was sent from one to another and when it arrived, the recipient would take out her letter and replace it with a new one. All but two of the “Round Robins” were members of the Massachusetts Alpha Chapter at Boston University. The two, Mrs. Coolidge included, were members of the Vermont Beta Chapter at the University of Vermont.

Mrs. Coolidge’s round robin letter from the White House shortly after the presentation was addressed to “Dear Birdies:”

“You have to sit and pay attention to me now that I am a full-fledged alumna of your own university. Having felt like a rank outsider when the invitation came from Mr. Murlin to be present at the induction into office of the first Dean of Women and to receive at his hands an honorary degree. But, I want to tell you that I got all wobbly when he announced the magnitude of the degree as I stood before him there in the New Old South Meeting house. And I have not yet recovered. It never occurred to me that I should rise to the heights of Ll.D. I had not given any consideration to the particular degree that would be bestowed upon me but in thinking it over afterwards I decided I very likely expected a new one to be created to fit my case and it seemed to me that D.D. would have been a good one, standing not for Doctor of Divinity, oh no, but for Doctor of Domesticity! The fleeting glimpse of about half our little band was very tantalizing at the tea which followed the induction ceremonies but you who were there will never know how good you looked to me as you gathered on the balcony. My life now seems made of tantalizing glimpses. It is terrible to have to spread out so thin.”

President Murlin’s tenure at Boston University ended shortly after he conferred Mrs. Coolidge’s degree. He was a DePauw University alumnus, Class of 1891, where he was a member of Phi Kappa Psi and Phi Beta Kappa. Ermina May “Mina” Fallass, Ph.D., was a member of the Alpha Chapter of Kappa Alpha Theta. A 1882 graduate of Albion College, she earned a Master’s degree at the University of Michigan in 1886.  Two years later, she earned a Ph.D. at DePauw University. She, too, was a member of Phi Beta Kappa, and she studied in Berlin and Paris.  She became Dean of Women and a French and English Literature Professor at Cornell College in Iowa. On October 12, 1893, she married Lemuel Herbert Murlin, President of Baker University.  From 1911-24, he served as Boston University’s President.

Lemuel Herbert Murlin, D.D.

In September of 1924, he was elected President of DePauw University, the first graduate of the University to become President. President Murlin began his duties in February 1925, at the age of 63. One of his many accomplishments at DePauw was lifting a long-standing ban on social dancing. February 13, 1926 was the first ever-all school dance. Dr. Murlin served as a chaperone at the dance. Among his other accomplishments in the three years he was at the helm of the school was the revamping of the athletic situation and the introduction of housemothers into fraternity houses. The former effort brought all athletic activities and physical education classes under the authority of a university department and the latter effort was an attempt to curtail rowdy behavior. He also established a Freshman Week as an orientation for new students. President Murlin resigned in 1928 and he died in 1935. His wife served as First Lady of the three institutions, Baker University, Boston University and DePauw University.

Ermina Fallass Murlin, Ph.D.

 

 

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The Panhellenic Patriots of Company Q

Company Q, University of Minnesota, 1888-89

Co-eds at the University of Minnesota were organized into a Women’s Military Company.  According to a report in the March 1889 Key of Kappa Kappa Gamma, “Soon after drill began for the men, the faculty petitioned that a like favor be granted the women. A graceful permission was given, and a company of forty members was soon organized under the command of Lieutenant Glenn, USA stationed at Fort Snelling.

“The uniform is of cadet blue lady’s cloth. Kilt skirt bordered by a band of black broadcloth; blouse fastened with black braid frogs, and with  full sleeves gathered to a black cuff. A black zouave jacket completes the dress. Freedom of movement and dress reform are strictly prescribed.

“Six Kappas are ‘uniformisses’ and are enjoying the novel exercise of the hour’s drill. Army tactics are studied and lectures attended. A rifle weighing three and one half pounds will be used for spring target practice.”

This was a Panhellenic group. There were six Kappas, a few Delta Gammas and those who became charter members of Kappa Alpha Theta, Alpha Phi and Pi Beta Phi. Company Q seems to have existed between 1886 and 1892.

According to the University of Minnesota School of Kinesiology web-site, “The military training unit for women, Company Q, continued until 1892, when a more conventional physical activity program for women was established under the Department of Physical Culture, headed by Louise Kiehle from 1892-1900.”

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Dr. Seuss, Sig Ep? Yep!

Theodor Seuss Geisel aka Dr. Seuss, Dartmouth College Class of 1925, was a member of the New Hampshire Alpha Chapter of Sigma Phi Epsilon. Dartmouth College was founded in 1769 by Rev. Eleazar Wheelock (1711-1779).  When I first heard this fact in a History of Higher Education class taught by Dr. Jeffrey Aper, I could not help but think of good old Mr. Sneelock of If I Ran the Circus fame. I have often wondered if Geisel took inspiration for Sneelock from the time he spent on the campus of the college Rev. Wheelock founded. It’s pure speculation on my part, but it’s a fun point to ponder when the situation warrants.

Dr. Seuss is one of my favorite authors and given the chance I will recite the first several pages of the The Cat in the Hat by memory, decades after I stopped my bedtime parental reading duties. Dr. Seuss’ first book, And to Think That I Saw It on Mulberry Street, almost did not get published. Turned down by publisher after publisher, Geisel  contemplated the burning of the manuscript. A chance encounter with a former Dartmouth classmate, Vanguard Press editor Marshall “Mike” McClintock, resulted in the book’s 1937 publication. In gratitude, Geisel dedicated the book to McClintock’s wife, Helene, and the book’s main character was named after the their son  Marco.

Geisel told the story himself, “I was on a long, stormy crossing of the Atlantic, and it was too rough to go out on deck. Everybody in the ship just sat in the bar for a week, listening to the engines turn over: da-da-ta-ta, da-da-ta-ta, da-da-ta-ta….

“To keep from going nuts, I began reciting silly words to the rhythm of the engines. Out of nowhere I found myself saying, ‘And that is a story that no one can beat; and to think that I saw it on Mulberry Street’

“When I finally got off the ship, this refrain kept going through my head. I couldn’t shake it. To therapeutize myself I added more words in the same rhythm.

“Six months later I found I had a book on my hands, called And to Think That I Saw It on Mulberry Street. So, what to do with it?

“I submitted it to twenty-seven publishers. It was turned down by all twenty-seven. The main reason they all gave was there was nothing similar on the market, so of course it wouldn’t sell.

“After the twenty-seventh publisher had turned it down, I was taking the book home to my apartment, to burn it in the incinerator, and I bumped into Mike McClintock coming down Madison Avenue.

“He said, ‘What’s that under your arm?’

“I said, ‘That’s a book that no one will publish. I’m lugging it home to burn.’

“Then, I asked Mike, ‘What are you doing?’

“He said, ‘This morning I was appointed juvenile editor of Vanguard Press, and we happen to be standing in front of my office; would you like to come inside?’

“So, we went inside, and he looked at the book and he took me to the president of Vanguard Press. Twenty minutes later we were signing contracts.

“That’s one of the reasons I believe in luck. If I’d been going down the other side of Madison Avenue, I would be in the dry-cleaning business today.” [1]

I am saddened to think that Dr. Seuss almost was silenced before he became a national treasure. I am oh so grateful that he persisted in the face of repeated rejection.  Cheers to those Dartmouth ties! Theodor Geisel may no longer be with us, but Dr. Seuss will  live on.

(There is a rumor going around that Kurt Vonnegut and Dr. Seuss were college roommates. Not true. Ted Geisel was a Sigma Phi Epsilon at Dartmouth and Kurt Vonnegut was a Delta Upsilon at Cornell.)

Theodor Seuss Geisel, 1925, while a Dartmouth student (courtesy of the Dartmouth College Library)

 

 

Early Sig Ep house

 

[1] The Beginnings of Dr. Seuss, AN INFORMAL REMINISCENCE, Theodor Seuss Geisel, PUBLISHED IN COMMEMORATION OF THE ONE-HUNDREDTH ANNIVERSARY OF HIS BIRTH • MARCH 2 1904-2004.


 

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Grace Coolidge and Orange, Connecticut

Orange, Connecticut is a small town, west of New Haven. It’s where my husband grew up and where we visit yearly. When I found a Grace Coolidge letter written from Orange, my curiosity was piqued. Did Grace Coolidge really spend time in Orange, a town I know so well? As it turns out, yes she did!

The Coolidge’s son John and his young family, Grace Coolidge’s “precious four” as she referred to them, did indeed live in Orange. John Coolidge, in 1925, as an Amherst College Phi Gamma Delta, met Florence Trumbull, a Mount Holyoke student and daughter of the Governor of Connecticut, as they traveled on a train to the inauguration festivities in Washington.

The Wedding Party of John and Florence Trumbull Coolidge

On September 23, 1929, Florence and John married in Plainville, Connecticut. “As the couple gave their vows in a simple, seven minute ceremony, Professor William C. Hammond, of Mount Holyoke College, the bride’s alma mater, softly played ‘White’s Air,’ the college vesper song, as an obligato on the organ.”[1] More than a thousand mums were transported by refrigerated rail car from California to be used in the wedding. Thousands lined the streets to “view the wedding which began as a charming boy and girl romance and soon became an event of nation-wide interest second only in social importance this year to the Lindbergh-Morrow wedding last May.”[2]

Grace wrote her son a letter just before he married, “John, you are a son for a mother to be proud of and I want you to always feel that I am standing by, ready to do anything for you and Florence. You two together should make something beautiful of your lives. Just don’t let little things be-cloud your vision and, when the rough places need to be gotten over, hold your chin up, throw your shoulders back and go forward–for it’s the rough places which steady the feet and strengthen the muscles. Life is so beautiful–never do anything which will mar the sweetness of it. My, how I love you and how I want you to find in life all that is just and true and right and live it gloriously!”[3]

After they first married, the couple lived for a time in Westville, Connecticut. John had taken a job with the New York, New Haven and Hartford Railroad. In 1933, their first child, Cynthia, was born. Her initials, “C.C,” mirrored the President’s initials. Daughter Lydia was born in 1939.  At some point during John’s 13-year-long employment with the railroad, the Coolidges moved to Orange.

When I located the Round Robin letter written from Orange, where the former First Lady was babysitting her granddaughters, I called my mother-in-law and asked her to do some sleuthing. I wanted to know which house it was. She could find no leads. That summer, the Calvin Coolidge Memorial Foundation hosted a Grace Coolidge Day in Northampton, Massachusetts. My mother-in-law, daughter, and I attended. The Coolidge’s granddaughter, Lydia Coolidge Sayles, was on the program. We spoke with her and she told us exactly where the house was located. When we arrived back in Orange, we found the house and we chatted with a neighbor who had been friends with the Coolidge girls. She remembered the First Lady arriving at the home and  playing jacks on the floor with the girls.


[1] St. Petersburg Times, September 24, 1929.
[2] St. Petersburg Times, September 24, 1929.
[3] Sayles, Lydia Coolidge, Grace Coolidge, My Grandmother, 1998.

 

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Jake Stahl, Sigma Chi, Outstanding Illini Athlete of the Early 1900s

 

Garland “Jake” Stahl

Garland “Jake” Stahl was perhaps the most famous of the University of Illinois’ early athletes. He was the captain of the 1902 Illini football team as well as a star on the baseball team. A member of the Kappa Kappa Chapter of Sigma Chi, his nickname “Jake” was given to him by a chapter member.

At Homecoming 1922, shortly after his death, the chapter’s alumni reminisced about their departed brother. One told the story of his nickname, “Garland Stahl came over from Elkhart (Illinois), and he was as green a country boy as they make ‘em. In his freshman year he joined the Sigma Chi Fraternity, and as he played the cornet, he was immediately made a member of the house orchestra. One night a special feature at the house was to be an orchestra program, but when the time came to begin, Stahl was nowhere to be found. The fellows searched the house and finally found him hiding away on the second floor. They dragged him down and asked him what the trouble was. ‘Aw, I ain’t got no lip,’ said Stahl, and he started to walk away, when Jack Allen, 1902, one of the musicians, stopped him with, ‘Come on, ya darn old hay jake, and play anyway.’ Stahl played, but from that time on everyone who had heard the affair called him ‘Jake’ until it just grew into his name.” (The Sigma Chi Quarterly, November 1922, 42(1), p. 62).

At a home game with Michigan in 1903, Stahl hit  a game-winning homer “so hard and so high that it struck amid the upper limbs of a tree almost down to the football field.” The soft maple tree became known as the “Jake Stahl Tree” until the late 1940s when it was cut down because of advanced decay.

In 1903, after graduating, Stahl joined the Boston Red Sox as a first baseman. Later he was transferred to Washington, Chicago, New York and then back to Washington as player- manager. He went back to the Red Sox as manager.

In 1906, he married Jennie Mahan, a classmate and a member of the Delta Chapter of Kappa Alpha Theta at the University of Illinois. Her father was founder and president of the Washington Park National Bank in Chicago. In the off-season, Stahl worked for the bank. Later he became the bank’s president but his health failed. The family moved to the West Coast in an unsuccessful effort to regain his health. He died on September 18, 1922. At his interment in Chicago, his Sigma Chi chapter placed on his grave a large white cross of Sigma Chi roses. Stahl had been a loyal Kappa Kappa alumnus, donating generously to the building fund and giving the chapter a Victrola.

 

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Happy Birthday Alpha Delta Pi!

Alpha Delta Pi was founded as the Adelphean Society on May 15, 1851 at Wesleyan Female College in Macon, Georgia. In 1905, the Society changed its name to Alpha Delta Phi. With the installation of its Beta Chapter at Salem College in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, Alpha Delta Phi became a national organization.

The third chapter was founded at Mary Baldwin Seminary, in Staunton, Virginia, in 1906, the same year that Macon, Georgia was the site of its first national convention. Alpha Delta Phi joined the National Panhellenic Conference in 1909.

The installation of the Sigma Chapter at the University of Illinois in 1912 came shortly after the installation, on the same campus, of the Illinois Chapter of Alpha Delta Phi, a men’s fraternity whose chapters were primarily in the northeast. Alpha Delta Phi, the men’s fraternity, was founded in 1832 at Hamilton College in Clinton, New York. The women made their organization aware of this duplication of name and the problems that surfaced because of it. In 1913, the convention body voted to change the name  to Alpha Delta Pi.

Wesleyan Female College

Alpha Delta Pi, along with Phi Mu, are the two “Macon Magnolias.” On January 4, 1852, Phi Mu, was founded as the Philomathean Society on the same campus. For a little more than 50 years they remained together on the campus. They made their debuts into the Panhellenic world at about the same time. They are the oldest of the secret societies for women.

 

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Before 210 Walnut Place – New York Alpha’s Euclid House

215 Euclid

I just came across this postcard of the house that the New York Alphas lived in from 1920-39. This seems to have been on Euclid between Comstock and Ostrom. My guess is that it was on a lot that Shaw Hall is now on.

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There Are No Alumni of Women’s Colleges or Women’s Fraternities/Sororities

“Once a Student, Always an Alumna” reads an ad on the back of the Mount Holyoke Alumnae Quarterly, one of my favorite college magazines. Mount Holyoke College is a women’s college. It has only graduated women since its founding in 1837. Therefore,  it does not have alumni. They are alumnae. The same can be said of Pi Phi or any women’s fraternity/sorority. They are women’s organizations. After graduation or withdrawal from college, one of their members is an alumna, two or more are alumnae. That is, unless there are one or more men in the membership.*

To explain why I cringe whenever I hear a fraternity woman talk about her chapter’s alumni, I am quoting Mary Lou Leslie who, many years ago, wrote this “Alumn-knee” explanation in The Angelos of Kappa Delta, “The men of the Greek World use their EYES to see the KNEES of the women of the Greek World. That’s an over-simplified way of remembering masculine and feminine Latin endings – a man is an alumnNUS of a college or fraternity and a woman is an alumnA. Are you with me so far? Then when we gather in associations or conventions, it is still a different story. Two, three or several hundred, the men are alumnI and the women are alumnAE.  Now here’s the rub ‘I’ is just plain ‘I’ or ‘EYE’. ‘AE’ is NOT pronounced ‘I’ or ‘EYE’ but ‘EEE’ – long ‘E'”.

*Delta Gamma’s early growth was due, in part, to the efforts of Phi Delta Theta George Banta. He is the only male initiate of Delta Gamma. While it is an interesting footnote to note that the group has one male member, the Delta Gammas who have graduated or withdrawn from college are called alumnae, as noted on the Delta Gamma web-site, and well they should be.

 

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How the P.E.O.s at Iowa Wesleyan Became Alpha Xi Deltas

How exactly did those P.E.O.s at Iowa Wesleyan College become the Beta Chapter of Alpha Xi Delta? How was that connection made? It was such a defining moment in the history of both organizations.

P.E.O. was founded as a collegiate organization at Iowa Wesleyan College on January 21, 1869. Alpha Xi Delta was founded on April 17, 1893 at Lombard College in Galesburg, Illinois.

Over the years between 1869 and 1902, the P.E.O. members who had been initiated while enrolled at Iowa Wesleyan College stayed active in the college chapter even though they were no longer enrolled in the college. Many remained in or near Mount Pleasant. Others formed chapters in towns and communities where they  moved after graduation. The early P.E.O. chapters that had been formed at nearby schools did not survive and P.E.O.’s growth was in community chapters. The chapter at Iowa Wesleyan College was finding it difficult to operate on a college campus with the rules put forth by the community chapters.

The P.E.O. Chapter at Iowa Wesleyan College had been known as Original Chapter A. It later took on the name A-J to distinguish itself from the Mount Pleasant chapter. It ultimately became known as Chapter S. After the turn of the century, the governing body of P.E.O. made the decision to withdraw the charter of Chapter S. The college co-eds wished to remain a collegiate organization and discussed becoming a chapter of a Greek-letter organization.

The Alpha Xi Delta Chapter at Lombard, having made the decision to become a national organization, and the collegiate members of P.E.O., having decided to become a chapter of a Greek-letter organization, discussed the decisions that needed to be made on both sides if there was to be a resolution to these wishes.

Anna Gillis (Kimble), a member of the Alpha Xi Delta Chapter at Lombard College, hailed from Mount Pleasant. Her influence helped the Iowa Wesleyan women make the decision to become the Beta Chapter of Alpha Xi Delta.

On June 9, 1902, the Alpha Xi Delta members entered the Lombard College Chapel wearing their tri-colored ribbons for the first time. The ribbons heralded the fact that they were now a national organization. After chapel, the installing officers made their way to Mount Pleasant.

The installation of Alpha Xi Delta’s second chapter took place at the home of Ellen Ball. Cora Bollinger-Block presided at the installation. Helping her were Ella Boston-Leib*, Alice Barlett-Bruner, Jennie Marriot-Buchanan, Virginia Henney Franklin, Anna Gillis (Kimble), and Edna Epperson-Brinkham.

The Beta Chapter of Alpha Xi Delta, 1904

The chapter roll quickly grew. By 1905, when the Beta Chapter hosted the Third National Convention, there were nine chapters. In addition to the chapters at Lombard and Iowa Wesleyan, chapters had been chartered at Mount Union College,  Bethany College, University of South Dakota, Wittenberg University, Syracuse University, University of Wisconsin and West Virginia University.

In 1913, Iowa Wesleyan College authorities allowed the chapter to initiate the P.E.O. alumnae as Alpha Xi Deltas. Afterwards, the Mount Pleasant Alumnae Club of Alpha Xi Delta was formed.

The only P.E.O. founder to be continuously involved with P.E.O. was Alice Bird Babb. Her daughter Alice Babb was a member of the Beta Chapter of Alpha Xi Delta.

The 1923 Alpha Xi Delta history describes one of Beta Chapter’s special traditions, “Each commencement morning the member of Beta Chapter arise with the sun and go down the ‘K’ line to an old stone quarry. Here a great fire is built, the coffee pot put on, weanies roasted, eggs fried, and an outdoor breakfast prepared. After the breakfast is eaten, the girls gather round the embers of their dying fire and sing the songs of their fraternity until it is time for the seniors to return to the university and receive the degrees which transform them from college into alumnae members.”

Anna Gillis-Kimble was the first Alpha Xi Delta delegate to attend the Inter-Sorority Conference (now known as the National Panhellenic Conference) in 1904. She served as the first Editor of The Alpha Xi Delta of the Alpha Xi Delta Sorority (now The Quill). Years later, she said, “Perhaps the dearest memory of all is in conjunction with our first journal…to have that first tiny Convention say, ‘We will have a national journal, and you and you and you may lay your heads together and produce it for us.’  That was thrilling and never to be forgotten.” Her role in making Alpha Xi Delta a national organization was only one of her contributions to her beloved sorority.

* Ella Boston Leib also served as Alpha Xi Delta’s Grand President, National Panhellenic Conference delegate, and Chairman of  NPC as well as the President of Illinois State Chapter of P.E.O. For more information about this, please take a look at this post http://wp.me/p20I1i-Gz .

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Alice Duer Miller, Suffragist and Kappa Kappa Gamma

Kappa Kappa Gamma, Beta Epsilon Chapter, Barnard College. Alice Duer is in the middle row, third from left.

Alice Duer Miller had a very privileged upbringing, but her family’s fortunes turned at about the time she entered college. Even though she was on a limited budget, she became a member of the Beta Epsilon Chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma while a student at Barnard College. A Phi Beta Kappa, she graduated in 1899 and did graduate work in mathematics at Columbia University.

She married Henry Wise Miller in October 1899. After a stint in Costa Rica where her husband worked unsuccessfully trying to cultivate rubber, they, along with their young son, returned to New York City. During this time, the Millers struggled a bit financially and she worked as a teacher while he built his business working in the Stock Exchange.

An ardent suffragist, in the years when women were trying to gain the right to vote, she wrote a column,  Are Women People? devoted to the cause of equal suffrage. In 1915 she penned:

“Mother, what is a feminist?”

“A feminist, my daughter,

Is any woman now who cares

to think about her own affairs

As men don’t think she oughter.”

Alice Duer Miller, Kappa Kappa Gamma

Another entry, Why We Oppose Votes for Men, included these pertinent points:

1. Because man’s place in the armory.

2. Because no really manly man wants to settle any question otherwise than by fighting about it.

3. Because if men should adapt peaceable methods women will no longer look up to them.

4, Because men will lose their charm if they step out of their natural sphere and interest themselves in other matters than feats of arms, uniforms and drums.

5. Because men are too emotional to vote. Their conduct at baseball games and political conventions show this, while their innate tendency to appeal to force renders them peculiarity unfit for the task of government.

Barnard College, the women’s college that was the coordinate to the then all-male Columbia University, was founded in 1889.* It is one of the Seven Sister Colleges. Barnard College remained a part of Miller’s life. She served as a Barnard trustee from 1922-1942 and she co-authored the 1939 history, Barnard College: The First Fifty Years.

Miller played an integral role in the Panhellenic House, the fraternity women’s residence hotel that was built in the 1920s (see the links on the sidebar for more information about it). She headed the women’s committee that sold stock in the Panhellenic House. Later in 1935, she was a judge in the Panhellenic Essay contest whose prize was week’s stay at the Beekman Tower (Panhellenic) Hotel and $50.

In addition to short stories, Miller wrote poetry, screenplays and novels. Her columns were published as Are Women People? and Women are People!  A novel, Come Out of the Kitchen, was published in 1916.  Her fiction was often adapted to stage and film. Her poem, the White Cliffs of Dover was adapted into a film. She took on the role of an actress when she appeared in Soak the Rich. She was listed as an “advisory editor” in the first issue of The New Yorker.  She died in 1942.

*The short-lived women’s fraternity system at Barnard will be chronicled in a later post. Virginia Gildersleeve, who is seated next to Miller in the picture above, played a major role, whether willingly or unwillingly, in the demise of the women’s fraternity system at Barnard College. Two National Panhellenic Conference organizations, Alpha Omicron Pi (1897) and Alpha Epsilon Phi (1909), were founded there.

 

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