Graduating in the middle of an academic year can be bittersweet. To be done with an academic degree, whether a little early or a few semesters beyond four years, is joyous. To leave close friends knowing they will have a shared history come next semester, which may or may not include you, is a little sad. Social media has brought staying in touch to a new level, so feeling connected with old friends is much easier than it was 100 and even 20 years ago.
Fraternity and sorority graduates, please know that this is not the end of the membership journey. It is the beginning of your life as an alumna or alumnus. Seize the opportunity to be a part of the alum life of your organization. If there is an alum club/chapter where you’ll be heading, join it.
Give to your organization’s foundation. You’re probably strapped for cash and don’t have much,, but try to give at least $15 to your organization’s foundation.this year, $20 next year. Get in the habit of giving and upping the gift a bit each year.
Work for your organization. It can be as simple as being on the lookout for potential new members. Speak of the good things your organization does. Keep current – read the magazine, visit the web-site, sign up for e-mails and tweets. Volunteer to work with a chapter, or put your name in the hat for committee work. Every national/international officer once was in the same place you find yourself today.
Best wishes for a happy and healthy life ahead. Remember when you speak of your membership in a fraternity or sorority, say “I am an ABC” not “I was an ABC.”
From my collection of cords.
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