October 15 – Alpha to Zeta and More

Alpha Chi Omega and Zeta Tau Alpha celebrate Founders’ Day on October 15. How amazing is it that the first organization and the last organization on the alphabetical listing of National Panhellenic Conference members share the same Founders’ Day?

On Thursday, October 15 1885, Alpha Chi Omega was founded at DePauw University in Greencastle, Indiana. Thirteen years later, on Saturday, October 15, 1898, Zeta Tau Alpha was founded at the State Female Normal School (now Longwood University) in Farmville, Virginia.

Alpha Chi Omega’s seven founders are Anna Allen, Olive Burnett, Bertha Deniston, Amy DuBois, Nellie Gamble, Bessie Grooms and Estelle Leonard. They were students in the DePauw School of Music. With the guidance and support of James Hamilton Howe, Dean of the School of Music, they created an organization that at its beginning insisted its members possess some musical culture. A member of Beta Theta Pi, James Campbell, offered advice in the creation of a constitution and by-laws.

Alpha Chi Omega’s first appearance was in Meharry Hall of East College. The seven women wore scarlet and olive ribbon streamers attached to their dresses to display the organization’s colors.

Zeta Tau Alpha‘s founders are Alice Maud Jones Horner, Frances Yancey Smith, Alice Bland Coleman, Ethel Coleman Van Name, Ruby Bland Leigh Orgain, Mary Campbell Jones Batte, Helen May Crafford, Della Lewis Hundley, and Alice Grey Welsh. For a short time, the group was known on the Farmville campus as ???.  An invitation sent to the two groups then on the campus read “The ??? will be delighted to receive the Kappa Delta and Sigma Sigma Sigma fraternities in the end room in Nursey Hall at 8:30 P.M.”

Other historic events which occurred on October 15 include:

1789 – George Washington made his first presidental tour of New England.

1866 – A fire in Quebec destroys 2,500 homes.

1924 – President Calvin Coolidge, Phi Gamma Delta, used his authority under the Antiquities Act to name Fort Wood, the site of the Statue of Liberty Enlightening the World, as a national monument. Four additional sites were designated the same day.

1951 – I Love Lucy debuted. Through the foresight of Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz, the stars and producers of the show, who filmed the show on tape, the episodes have been viewed by millions. Madelyn Pugh Davis, Kappa Kappa Gamma, was a writer for the show.

1979 – The New York Knicks retired #10, Walt Frazier’s number. Frazier played basketball at SIU and led the Salukis to the 1967 NIT championship. He was the first Saluki to have his jersey retired, #52. Frazier is a member of Alpha Phi Alpha, Fraternity, Inc.

Walt Frazier at Homecoming Hoops, an event prior to the 2017 SIUC Homecoming football game, featuring the Men’s and Women’s Basketball Salukis.

 

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Kappa Kappa Gamma + Peggy Kirk Bell

I have been to Monmouth, Illinois, many times and on each trip, I try to envision Monmouth College as it might have been in 1870. I walk past the spot where it is said two women talked about forming an organization of their own. If it is quiet and I stand very still might I hear those whispers from nearly 150 years ago?

On October 13, 1870, six women – Mary Moore “Minnie” Stewart, Hannah Jeannette Boyd, Mary Louise Bennett, Anna Elizabeth Willits, Martha Louisa Stevenson, and Susan Burley Walker – walked into chapel exercises wearing small golden keys in their hair.

The six were the founders of Kappa Kappa Gamma  The Alpha chapter was disbanded by the mid 1870s when Monmouth College ordered the fraternities to leave campus, although there is evidence the some of the organizations maintained sub rosa chapters for several years. It is a testament to the strength of the organization that it, along with its Monmouth Duo partner, Pi Beta Phi, continued to grow and succeed despite the demise of the Alpha chapter a few years after the founding.

Thanks to a Kappa friend for a picture of her ornaments.

The first badges were made by the Bennett’s family jeweler who was in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. In order to have the badges made, 12 had to be ordered at a price of $5 each. Since the 1876 Convention, October 13 has been celebrated as Founders’ Day.

A cake made by the Country Club of Birmingham, Alabama, for the Birmingham Alumnae Association Founders’ Day celebration.

Almost a year ago, one of the readers of this blog, a Kappa Alpha Theta, sent me info about Margaret “Peggy” Kirk Bell, an initiate of the Rollins College chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma, who had died in November 2016 at the age of 95. She and Bell shared a hometown of Findlay, Ohio. I promised the reader I would write about Bell. And I have been meaning to do it since that time; today seems like a perfect day to follow through on the promise.  

Bell was born on October 28, 1921, in Findlay, Ohio. Although she was a gifted athlete, opportunities for women in sports were very limited when she was a young woman. She took up golf at the age of 17 and apparently learned it quickly and adeptly, with a lot of practice. She planned to teach physical education. In the years before the establishment of the Ladies Professional Golf Association Tour, she was one of the top amateurs, but again, her opportunities were limited. 

In 1953, she married her high school sweetheart Warren Bell. She and her husband purchased the Pine Needles resort in North Carolina. The course has hosted the U.S. Women’s Open three times. She created “Golfaris,” a golf instruction method for women taught by women. She has been honored extensively. She was the first woman to join the PGA Golf Instructors Hall of Fame. She was awarded the Bob Jones Award from the United States Golf Association. The largest golf circuit for young women is named in her honor.

In 1977, the women’s golf team at Rollins College, her alma mater, instituted the Peggy Kirk Bell Invitation. It is played in the early spring and “stands as a lasting tribute to Bell’s influence on the present and future of women’s golf,” according to the Rollins College website. What an #amazingsororitywomen she was!

From the Spring 2003 Key of Kappa Kappa Gamma

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Day of the Girl / Circle of Sisterhood / Cottey College

I had no intention of writing a post today. However, I knew this morning, while sipping coffee and skimming social media, that I needed to write a post. After walking the dogs and having thoughts spin around in my head, I am writing this. Is is not as polished as I would like it to be, but I hope you will give me some charity and disregard the rough edges. 

Today is the International Day of the Girl according to the tweet by the Circle of Sisterhood. In November 2009, Ginny Carroll, an Alpha Xi Delta* who has worked with Greek-letter organizations since her stint fresh out of college as a Alpha Xi Leadership Consultant, was watching an Oprah Winfrey interview. Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn, authors of the book Half the Sky, were discussing their visits to poor countries around the world. They told of how women were victims of oppression and violence simply because they were women. Carroll felt compelled to do something. She discussed it with some of her friends who were sorority women. Within five months, the Circle of Sisterhood became reality and five months after that, the IRS granted it 501(c)3 status.

The Circle of Sisterhood Foundation’s mission is to “to uplift girls and women from poverty and oppression through education.” The Circle of Sisterhood has granted more than $845,000 to organizations in 22 countries. Fifteen schools have been built in Malawi, Senegal, Haiti, Nepal, and Nicaragua. By coming together and linking arms, sorority women (and fraternity men, too!) have the opportunity to change the world. 

Ginny Carroll speaking to the SIUC Panhellenic Council in September, 2017.

The SIUC Panhellenic did a fundraiser for the Circle of Sisterhood and this is a reveal of the total.

On an unofficial Facebook page there was heated discussion about Cottey College, the P.E.O. Sisterhood’s college in Nevada, Missouri.  Of course I had to add some background to the discussion. Here is what I wrote:

This is not a new discussion. Virginia Alice Cottey Stockard gave the college to P.E.O. in 1927. A recommendation to sever P.E.O.’s connection with Cottey College was slated to be presented before the 1933 convention of Supreme Chapter. held in Kansas City, Missouri. All 882 delegates, officers and visitors went to Nevada, Missouri, by special train to tour the college. Later, when the recommendation to discontinue support of Cottey College was called for a vote, it was soundly defeated. Cottey has a unique spot in higher education. Being an all-women’s college is a tough sell for many young women, but when a match is made and the right woman finds Cottey, magic happens and a life is changed. Frankly, there is little to be derived from the sale of the buildings. Finding a buyer would be very difficult. I suspect if it ever were to come to pass, the selling price would be pennies on the dollar. The fact that we can change lives at Cottey College is a story that we do not tell with vigor.

Cottey College is a very special place. As I walked the dogs around the neighborhood, I though about the Day of the Girl and how great it would be to have some of the young female students who have been touched by the generosity of sorority women through the Circle of Sisterhood also experience the magic that is Cottey College. Could we help them enroll in the college halfway around the world and envelop them in the love of P.E.O. sisterhood? P.E.O. supports an international project, International Peace Scholars, a project which came about after World War II. International students attending Cottey College are eligible to apply for an IPS scholarship; they are the only undergraduates eligible for the IPS awards.

If nothing else, I hope this post makes you aware of these two special things – the Circle of Sisterhood Foundation and Cottey College. I support both organizations and I hope some of you do, too.

*The founding chapter of P.E.O. at Iowa Wesleyan University became the Beta Chapter of Alpha Xi Delta in 1902 when P.E.O. left the collegiate ranks and became a community organization.

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October 10, Happy Founders’ Day x 4

October 10, 1872 – Alpha Phi, founded at Syracuse University. It is the oldest of the Syracuse triad of NPC organizations founded at Syracuse. 

In September of 1872, Martha Foote (Crowe), Clara Sittser (Williams), and Kate Hogoboom (Gilbert) pondered the thought of women having fraternal organizations comparable to those of the men.  They invited all the college women to discuss the possibility. Ten women – the original three plus Jane Higham, Clara Bradley (Burdette), Louise Shepherd (Hancock), Florence Chidester (Lukens), Ida Gilbert (Houghton), Elizabeth Grace (Hubbell), and Rena  Michaels (Atchinson) met and pledged allegiance to the sisterhood. Minutes from the first meeting noted that Michaels was chosen president, plans were made for weekly meetings at which literary exercises would be part of the  program, and a 25¢ tax was levied for the purchase of a secretary’s book.  The first debate was “Resolved – that women have their rights.”

At first, the chapter met in the homes of chapter members. Dr. Chidester, Florence’s father, allowed the use of his Irving Avenue home office on Monday evenings. The first chapter room was on Salina Street, over Sager and Grave’s carpet store. The chapter room remained there for six years until it was moved to a suite of rooms on the fourth floor of the Onondaga County Savings Bank Building.

In 1884, the Alpha Phi chapter gave up the meeting rooms it rented in the bank.  Plans were made to rent a house “where the out-of-town girls could live and where one room could be used for a chapter hall.  The experiment proved a success, and at the end of a year it was suggested that the girls build and own a chapter house.”

In May of 1886, a 56’ x 178’ lot at 17 University Place was purchased by the members of Alpha Phi for $1,400, or $25 a front foot. A few Alpha Phi fathers acted as a Board of Trustees. A $2,500 bank mortgage was arranged and another Alpha Phi dad loaned the chapter $2,700.  On June 22, 1886, the laying of the corner stone of the first chapter house owned by a women’s fraternity took place.  

The Alpha Phi chapter house on University Avenue in Syracuse. It was the first house built and owned by a women's fraternity. The house was sold in 1902 and the chapter moved to its current home on Walnut Place.

The Alpha Phi chapter house on University Avenue in Syracuse. It was the first house built and owned by a women’s fraternity. The house was sold in 1902 and the chapter moved to its current home on Walnut Place.

The chapter moved into its new home in November.  The chapter hall was dedicated in January, 1887, and on Washington’s birthday, the chapter opened the house to 300 invited guests. In 1902, the chapter moved to the Bacon residence on Walnut Park. That home on Walnut Place is the home in which Alpha Phi still resides.

October 10, 1904 – Alpha Gamma Rho, founded at Ohio State University. It remained a local organization until April 4, 1908, when it joined with another local, Delta Rho Sigma, founded at the University of Illinois in 1906. The two groups me at an International Livestock Competition in Chicago. Sixteen men signed the fraternity’s charter. Until 1958, chapters were located solely at land-grant institutions. One of its most famous members is Orville Redenbacher, an initiate of the Purdue University chapter. 

October 10, 1910 – Tau Epsilon Phi, founded at Columbia University. The men who founded the organization gathered in Central Park and discussed the idea. The first formal meeting took place in the library of the Columbia University’s Department of Pharmacy, on Friday afternoon, October 19, 1910. The founders of Tau Epsilon Phi are Robert L. Blume, Julius M. Breitenbach, Charles M. Driesen, Ephraim Freedman, Leo H. Fried, Harold Goldsmith, Samuel Greenbaum, Julius Klauber, Israel Schwartz, and Julius J. Slofkin.

October 10, 1924 – Alpha Delta Gamma, founded at Loyola University, Chicago. Its founders are Francis Patrick Canary, John Joseph Dwyer, William S. Hallisey and James Collins O’Brien, Jr. It is likely the only fraternity concieved while its members were riding the “L”, the elevated train in Chicago.

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Credit or Discredit – What’ll It Be?

Being a member of a Greek-Letter Organization entails certain responsibilities. A member is expected to take part in the activities of the organization, serving in the day-to-day life of the chapter. A member is expected to be responsible for him/herself, turning in paperwork, paying bills on time, attending chapter meetings, etc. A member is expected to uphold the values of the organization.

While I know only one ritual, I do know that hazing has no part in any of the rituals of our organizations. I cringe whenever I read “hazing ritual” in an article because hazing is not a part of our rituals and has no place in any GLO.

Hazing has never made an individual a better person and it has never made an organization a better organization. It hasn’t. Yet, year after year, GLOs take center stage in the press for hazing violations. Hank Nuwer, an expert on hazing, keeps track of these things on his website. I follow his twitter account.

It breaks my heart to read some of the items he links to in his twitter posts. It’s hard to be a proponent for GLOs when reading about the actions of a small segment of our organizations. We are all discredited by the actions of a few.

I am reminded of a letter I read when writing the history of a fraternity chapter. The writer had achieved great prominence in his field. Yes, he noted, he was an initiate of the chapter but he wanted nothing to do with it. Why? When he was recruited, he was told there was zero-tolerance for hazing in the chapter. That turned out to be a half-truth, he said, and while he remained in the chapter because his close friends were there, he wanted nothing to do with the men who hazed him. The chapter lost someone who could have been a very loyal alumnus, but because of the actions of a few, he felt no loyalty to the organization. Moreover, the decades hadn’t softened his disdain. In replying to the invitation to speak to the chapter, he unleashed a torrent of anger about his experiences to young men who weren’t born when the hazing happened.

Every member reflects credit or discredit upon the organization to which they belong. Have our organizations become too big and/or successful for their own good? When we pitch membership to potential members do we stress the wrong things? Do we say “You will need to live by higher standards? You will need to do the right thing even though it may not be the easy or popular thing?” Or do we sell the fun aspects, without touching upon those things that are a bit harder to sell?

I am not coming up with any answers to these questions today. It’s food for thought.

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When Words Fail Me – 10/3/2017

 

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I recommend viewing Returning the Favor. It helps restore one’s faith in humanity.

 

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Lost in a Roundabout Somewhere in Indiana

On Monday, I headed east to Indiana to do some research in Carmel and get closer to completing a project. My dissertation, Coeducation and the History of Women’s Fraternities 1867-1902, covered the seven founding National Panhellenic Conference organizations, the campuses where these groups established chapters and why there was a need for an umbrella organization. I am fluent in the language of women’s fraternities/sororities. Years ago, when I was asked to write a history of a men’s fraternity at the University of Illinois I was apprehensive. Could I speak the language of men’s fraternities?

It turned out to be a fascinating experience and I’ve written several more fraternity histories for the Society for the Preservation of Greek Housing since then, all of them chapters at the University of Illinois. I now have a very good feel for what was going on with the Illinois fraternity and sorority system during any particular decade. The history I am writing currently is for a men’s fraternity chapter on another campus near Boston, 1,200 miles away. As always, it has been an interesting exploration, one which I will write about when I get my head above water. However, the amount of roundabouts (or rotaries as I am more apt to call them) in Carmel made me feel like I was indeed in Massachusetts. They are a real challenge when navigating new terrain, but I did make it out of there alive. 

I was limited by time because I needed to head to Bloomington where I had a date with some Pi Phis. Some were old friends and some I had never met. I spoke to the chapter about their chapter’s long and rich history. 

The Bloomington Alumnae Club was having its first meeting of the year and it was fun to just be there. Afterwards, I spent some precious time catching up with my assigned roommate from the 1987 Pi Phi convention, in whose guest room I was freeloading. She is a legacy and she has been cleaning out her mother’s home. She gave me several of her mom’s Pi Phi items for the archives.

I was somewhat bummed because I couldn’t stay another day in Bloomington. There were at least two other things I wanted to do. The Indiana University Archives recently received a wonderful collection of century-old letters and ephemera. The items belonged to Helen Dale Hopkins (Wampler), who was a member of the Pi Beta Phi chapter. The collection is digitized (see Pi Phi Letters), but I wanted to see the collection up close and personal. I will have to save that for another visit.

Here is an excerpt from one of her letters:

We decided to wait two weeks for our play, and so I don’t know what we’ll have Monday night – a good time anyway. Leah Stock, our province president, is coming Tuesday night. We’re going to move all the best furniture in our room. We’re going to have a dinner Tuesday night, a reception Wednesday afternoon, and a cooky-shine Wednesday night.

The name of Leah Stock was very familiar to me. A graduate of Hillsdale College, she taught at the Pi Beta Phi Settlement School in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. She went on to marry a son of Elizabeth Clarke Helmick, who was one of the most potent forces behind the early success of the Settlement School. The reference to the cookie-shine (although in these years it was spelled cooky-shine) shows that this tradition has been a long one, originating at the University of Kansas in 1873.

Helen Dale Hopkins is in the bottom row on the left side.

I also want to use the Carroll L. Lurding Library of College Fraternity and Sorority Materials which is available through the Indiana University’s Lilly Library. Spanning the years 1840-2014, the collection consists of “books, pamphlets, histories, yearbooks, and other bound volumes detailing the history of fraternities, sororities, colleges, and universities from all 50 states and the District of Columbia in the United States as well as some colleges in Canada.” The items were donated by Carrol Lurding, a Delta Upsilon who loves researching the history of college fraternal organizations. He is still at it and last I heard, he was researching the local organizations at the SUNY institutions.

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P.E.O. International Presidents AND Sorority Women

A very special initiation happened this summer at the 2017, Pi Beta Phi convention. Susan Reese Sellers, a past International President of P.E.O. (2011-13), was one of a group of honorary alumnae initiates of Pi Beta Phi.

The early years of Pi Beta Phi and P.E.O. are intertwined. Pi Beta Phi’s second chapter was established at Iowa Wesleyan University on December 21, 1868. A month later, January 21, 1869, P.E.O. was founded at IWU by seven young women. Early Iowa Wesleyan women wore the arrow or the star, but never both.

Elizabeth Davenport Garrels, who served as P.E.O.’s International President from 2009-11, is a graduate of Iowa Wesleyan University and was initiated as a member of the Pi Beta Phi chapter there. She owns an arrow and a star. Two additional P.E.O. International Presidents have been members of both P.E.O. and Pi Beta Phi. They are Laura Storms Knapp (1949-51), a member of the Iowa State University chapter, and Jane Burtis Smith (1999-2001), a member of the University of Oklahoma chapter.

Susan Sellers and Elizabeth Garrels, both Iowa Alphas (IWU) and past International Presidents of P.E.O., Fran Becque, and Sue Robinson, past Pi Beta Phi Grand Council member and a member of P.E.O.

Florence Tomlinson Meyers (Wallace), in 1930, when she was Grand President of Kappa Kappa Gamma. (Photo courtesy of Kappapedia.)

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Hazing Has No Place. STOP. Period. End of Sentence.

Today marks the beginning of National Hazing Prevention Week™ (NHPW) sponsored by hazingprevention.org. Each year, the organization also honors those who speak out against hazing with the Hank Nuwer Anti-Hazing Hero Award. For the current and past winners of the award, please visit hazingprevention.org.   

Hank Nuwer is a Franklin College journalism professor and  he has authored  Hazing: Destroying Young Lives, The Hazing Reader, Wrongs of Passage and many other books. He has also provided a guest blog for today. I find it very difficult to write about hazing. It is abhorrent to everything Greek-Letter Organizations say they believe in. Hazing has no place in any organization that claims to help men and women become their best selves. Hazing destroys lives. My heart breaks for every family that is left to pick up the pieces of a hazing incident. As we start the week, I appreciate Mr. Nuwer’s generosity in allowing me to post his article.

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Hazing, the weed in the Garden of Eden that suffocates us all

By Hank Nuwer

The present database has come a long way from the database I published in my 1990 book, “Broken Pledges,” using Lexis-Nexis data. Up to now, most major media outlets have cited my database of hazing deaths that showed the U.S. experienced at least one hazing death per year 1969 to 2017.  

As of this column, that figure is out of date thanks to research performed for my Indiana University Press investigative book, “Hazing: Destroying Young Lives,” now at the printer for early 2018 publication, as well as research for yet another hazing book begun with a small seed- money grant generously provided by Franklin College.  

The new database at http:hanknuwer.com now shows one death per year in U.S. colleges, secondary and elementary schools from 1961 to 2017.  Think of 1961. JFK was inaugurated. Cuba’s Castro was cuddling with the Soviet Union. The Beatles were the mop-top rage of Liverpool. 

If Canada is included, the death figure is one per year from 1959 to 2017. Although there were no U.S. deaths recorded in 1958, there was an annual death from 1954 to 1957.   

In addition, I counted a relatively small, though disturbing, number of hazing deaths over the years in Boy Scouts, Masonic organizations, the Knights of Columbus, and the U.S. Armed Forces. The story of how Benjamin Franklin in 1737 momentarily tarnished his reputation by failing to stop a dangerous hazing prank is the first incident in this database.  

Behind every death is a family torn apart by the loss of a loved one who was strangled by alcohol, beaten to death, struck by a car while blindfolded, drowned, and so on. The first fraternity death, that of Mortimer Leggett, son of a famed Civil War general with the same name, occurred at spanking new Cornell University in 1873. Young Leggett felloff a cliff on a required midnight walkabout while wearing a blindfold in gorge country.   

Then there is the proctor who got sick and tired of being hazed at Swarthmore College and grabbed a flashlight and rifle to slay one tormentor as he slept. The hazer escaped the electric chair with an insanity plea.  

There was the recent death of Clemson pledge Tucker Hipps. Hipps died when he fell from a bridge at Lake Hartwell. His was the second Clemson fraternity death at that lake. No reporter, including me, reported that fact until a new keyword search came up with another tragedy at Clemson in 1961—the first year of what would become 56 consecutive years with a hazing death. 

Stashed among thousands of news clippings about hazing are earnest appeals from educators, grieving parents, activists and earnest students to do away with this “weed in the garden of academe” as one pundit called it in an 1860 speech at Harvard.  

But the problems of hazing in 1860 are the same now, but the perpetrators are a lot more careful to hide their tracks, to lie or to stonewall investigators, and to intimidate anyone threatening to come forward with the truth.   

Dead ahead is a trial of more than a dozen Penn State Beta Theta Pi members. They urged pledge Tim Piazza to swallow enough booze to kill him in a fall, and they left him either unattended or abused him as he lay dying.   

Just in the last week we’ve seen Louisiana State University student Max Gruver, a pledge for Phi Delta Theta, a staunch advocate for dry houses, die from an overdose. Local police are scrambling to find out what happened to him, but the members have clammed up tight as oysters and are talking only to defense lawyers.  

The database shows three fraternity hazing deaths at LSU before Gruver.  

I’ve met dozens of the hazed and hazers alike, the families of the dead, the dedicated Greek professionals, a lot of jaded alums, and activists from HazingPrevention.org, Stophazing,org, the AHA Movement and so on. Many parents who gave years of service to the cause have quit, so disillusioned by the continuing string of deaths that they no longer can even utter the word “hazing.”  

Everything possible has been tried. Bystander training. Help Weeks instead of Hell Weeks. Associate memberships instead of pledges. Delayed rush. Yanking charters.  

But still the deaths continue. I want to assure you there will be no more dangerous hazing when my friend John’s son goes to college in a year or, closer to home, my grandson in a couple more years.  

But I can’t.  

My list of deaths gets longer, longer and still longer.  

Stopping hazing is easy, I tell students. “Just don’t do it.”  

But too many don’t listen.  

These lyrics from the musical “Hamilton,” written by Lin-Manual Miranda, seemed appropriate for this post.  (Calligraphy by Simone Becque)

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Congratulations Cara Mund, Kappa Delta and P.E.O.!

Cara Mund has been admitted to law school at the College of Notre Dame, but that will be put on hold for at least a year as she has another commitment. She will be touring the country in her capacity of Miss America 2018. Mund was crowned on Sunday night.

She has an impressive resume. She’s the first Miss North Dakota to wear the crown and only the third Miss North Dakota to make it to the Top Ten. In the competition, she was a First runner-up of the Jean Bartel Quality of Life Award which comes with an additional $4,000 Scholarship.

An honors graduate of Brown University, she was a charter member of the Kappa Delta chapter. She served as VP of Community Service and Chapter President. She was named as a Corre Anding Stegall Collegiate Leadership Award winner. It’s Kappa Delta’s highest collegiate individual award.

May 2012 edition of the North Dakota P.E.O. State Chapter Daisy newsletter.

In addition, in 2012, as a senior at Century High School in Bismarck, North Dakota, she was one of three North Dakota seniors to win a P.E.O. STAR Scholarship. She also became a member of P.E.O., North Dakota Chapter BF.

September 2012 issue of the Nebraska State Chapter Daisy newsletter

Mund, who started her trek to Miss America as the Miss Northern Lights contestant in the Miss North Dakota pageant, is the second Kappa Delta to wear the Miss America crown. The first was Miss America 1983, Debra Maffett, an initiate of the Kappa Delta chapter at Sam Houston State University.

I believe Mund is the first member of P.E.O. to be crowned Miss America.

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