The Unveiling of a Sculpture Begins P.E.O.’s 150th Celebration

Last Friday, I was to have been in Des Moines, Iowa. I had been invited to the unveiling of a sculpture on the lawn of the P.E.O. Executive Office at 3700 Grand Avenue. When the invitation arrived, I began making plans for a trip to Iowa with the husband and dogs. From Des Moines we would head to Kansas for a quick visit with our daughter and her husband (and my favorite granddog). Alas, plans changed and I had to be somewhere else taking care of someone I love dearly. I was where I needed to be.

I missed seeing friends who were gathered there, especially Kylie Smith, a Kappa Kappa Gamma who is the Ohio State Chapter President. She has my cell number and sent me a number of texts which made my day. Coincidentally, Sue Baker, President of the International Chapter of P.E.O., is also a Kappa Kappa Gamma.

Encircle is the name of the work by Tom Stancliffe. According to the plaque near the sculpture: 

This abstract piece was designed with elements that represent our Sisterhood – encompassing the past, present and future of our mission. Eight open concentric circles are nested together to create one unified structure and are etched with the words Faith, Love, Purity, Justice and Truth – the P.E.O. virtues. Seven of the rings were designed to represent each one of our seven Founders, the eighth blue ring symbolizes each individual P.E.O. and her importance to and impact on the Sisterhood. The circular pieces are intentional unclosed to indicate P.E.O.’s openness to the future as we pursue our mission of education women all over the world.

The unveiling of the sculpture last Friday.

Founders Walk

Daisy bench

Encircle

Kylie Towers Smith, Ohio State Chapter President, Kappa Kappa Gamma alumna, and a proud graduate of Simpson College, which just down the road a piece in Indianola, Iowa. (Photos courtesy of Ohio State Chapter of P.E.O.)

The clock is ticking on pre-orders of We Who Are Sisters, the book commemorating 150 years of P.E.O. There is a 20% discount for books ordered by July 31. Quantities of the book are limited and now is the time to order.

I wrote the section on “The Builders.” They are the women who did the heavy lifting in the creation of the organization, but who rarely get any credit for their efforts. Most P.E.O.s do not know their names.

Read more about the connection of Kappa Kappa Gamma and P.E.O.

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A Generous Sigma Chi CEO and a Restaurant Recommendation

Walter Carr was excited to be starting a new job with Bellhops, a moving company in Alabama. When his car broke down the day before he was to report for his first day, he made the decision to walk the 20 miles between home and the job site. He left home around midnight and at 4 a.m., he was stopped by police. When he told them his story, they took him to Whataburger and bought him breakfast and a lunch to take with him. When he finally made it to the job site via another ride in a patrol car, and the story was told to the homeowners, they couldn’t believe that he had walked most of the way. Homeowner Jenny Hayden Lamey wrote a facebook post about it and it went viral. When the CEO of Bellhops, Luke Marklin, heard the story he drove to Alabama from Tennessee and gave his car to Carr. Marklin is an alumnus of the Purdue University chapter of Sigma Chi. He graduated in 2007 with a civil engineering degree and in 2012, he graduated from the Harvard Business School.

Marklin (r) presents the car key to Carr (l).

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Kristen Carmin Shelley is the daughter of a dear Pi Phi friend, my assigned roommate at the first Pi Phi convention I attended in 1987. Kristen is an alumna of the Pi Beta Phi chapter at Indiana University. After a number of years in Baton Rouge, she and her husband have returned to Bloomington as owners of the Trojan Horse. I ate there a few months ago and I highly recommend it!

40-Year-Old Trojan Horse Has New Thirty-ish Owners

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Apollo 11, Fraternity Pins on the Moon, and Sally Ride

It’s the anniversary of man walking on the moon. It’s an apt day to once again bust some myths still flying around social media land.

CLAIM: “Every Apollo 11 astronaut was a fraternity man.”

FALSE. There were three men aboard Apollo 11, Neil A. Armstrong, Michael Collins, and Edwin Eugene “Buzz” Aldrin, Jr.; Collins and Aldrin went to West Point where there are no social fraternities. Aldrin was elected to Tau Beta Pi, an engineering honor society. Armstrong was a fraternity man having been initiated into the Phi Delta Theta chapter at Purdue University.

 

CLAIM: “At least one fraternity badge has been to the moon.”

TRUE. The first fraternity badge which made its way to the moon was the one belonging to Neil Armstrong, an initiate of the Phi Delta Theta chapter at Purdue University. He was the first man to walk on the moon. Upon his return to Earth, he presented the badge to Phi Delta Theta and it is on display at the fraternity’s headquarters in Oxford. However, contrary to rumor, he never pinned it on the American flag on the moon, nor did he pin his wife’s Alpha Chi Omega badge to the American flag.

Kappa Sigma Edgar Mitchell, an initiate of the Carnegie Mellon University chapter wore his badge to the moon during Apollo 14. The Kappa Sigma badge resides at Kappa Sigma’s Museum in Charlottesville, Virginia.

Gene Cernan, an initiate of the Phi Gamma Delta at Purdue University, had his badge with him on a 1966 space walk and then again as a member of the Apollo 10 mission.

Gene Cernan’s Phi Gamma Delta badge.

Phi Delta Theta’s documentation about Neil Armstrong’s badge.

 

CLAIM: “The first American woman in space was a sorority woman.”

FALSE. Sally Ride was not a sorority woman, but there have been many other female astronauts who are sorority women

This book about astronauts, had these two female astronauts on the same page. One is a sorority woman and the other is not, The sorority woman is Judith Resnick, Alphe Epsilon Phi, and not Sally Ride.

This book about astronauts, had these two female astronauts on the same page. One is a sorority woman and the other is not, The sorority woman is Judith Resnick, Alpha Epsilon Phi, and not Sally Ride.

 

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The Can Lady Doing Good and the Loss of a Dear Friend

For those who have never watched an episode of Returning the Favor, Mike Rowe’s facebook show, you are missing out. It is delightful and uplifting. A recent episode on the Can Lady featured Mary Stumpp, an alumna of the Delta Gamma chapter at DePauw University. The Can Lady is doing good!

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On Tuesday morning, I awoke to an email that my Pi Phi friend MaryMargaret McDonough had passed away on Monday. I was in shock and heartbroken. I cannot remember when we first met, but it would have been at an Officer Workshop or at a Pi Phi Convention. All I can remember is that we would laugh. She told the best stories and as a native Long Islander, I was on the same wavelength as she was. She hailed from New Jersey and joined the Pi Beta Phi chapter at the University of Maryland. She was a Terp through and through.

I remember celebrating the centennial of my chapter with her and Julie Geiger (Shannon) Mercer in 1996 in Syracuse, MaryMargaret was our driver and we three shared a room. We laughed the entire time. Over the years, whenever MaryMargaret and I were at the same events, there was always laughter. While I can’t remember the conversations, I cherish the laughter.

In early 2000, when my family was in Connecticut visiting relatives, I took the train to NYC and toured the Beekman Tower Hotel, visited the Baird Collection at the New York Public Library (before it was on the internet), and I met MaryMargaret for lunch near her office which overlooked Gramercy Park.

Years later, when my daughter and I did one of our treks to Broadway, we met MaryMargaret for an early dinner, between the matinée and the evening performance. She was the first of my Pi Phi friends to meet my daughter. I remember we met at the Applebees in Times Square. Needless to say, there was a great deal of laughter that evening.

Last year, when Pi Beta Phi celebrated its 150th, MaryMargaret came to the convention and we had a chance to visit again. I can’t remember if we ate a meal together, but we knew that we would be on the bus to the post-convention tour to Monmouth and that we would have lots of time together then. We had the chance to catch up with each other and we laughed and laughed. Laughter is how we both made it through the rough spots in our lives. I had stashed my luggage in her room before we headed to Monmouth and when I gave her a hug as I left her room with my suitcases, I had no clue it would be the last time I would see her on this earth. I would have hugged her longer and I would have let her know once more what her friendship has meant to me over the years.

Rest in peace dear friend, until our paths cross again.

 

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In 1893, GLO Members Were Gathering at the Columbian Exposition

When Pi Beta Phi, Kappa Alpha Theta, Kappa Kappa Gamma, Delta Gamma, Alpha Phi, Gamma Phi Beta, and Delta Delta Delta met in Boston in 1891, one of the items on the agenda was the upcoming 1893 Columbian Exposition in Chicago. The women wanted to have a formal gathering space and perhaps a meeting.

A “Congress of Fraternities” during the Fair was not only discussed when the seven women’s fraternities met in Boston, but the idea was also mentioned in both men’s and women’s fraternity magazines. During the 1890s, fraternity magazine exchanges were the primary manner in which information was shared between the organizations.

According to The History of the Phi Delta Theta Fraternity

The prospectus of the liberal arts department of the fair, issued in 1891, said that a provision would be made for a fraternity display. Dr. S.H. Peabody, who was head of this department, having formerly been Regent of the University of Illinois, expressed an earnest desire to have a full exhibit by the fraternities.

In early January, 1892, representatives from 23 fraternities met in Chicago to discuss the proposed congress and exhibit. They recommended that all Greek-letter societies make exhibits to display at the Fair.

A subsequent meeting took place on July 7, 1892. The group adopted a constitution, elected officers, appointed committees and applied for space in an exhibit hall. Another meeting does not seem to have taken place until April 1, 1893. At that time, six men’s fraternities were represented and a decision was made that the exhibit was not feasible. The authorities were too late in allotting exhibit space and asked for $2,500 for expenses. According to the Phi Delta Theta’s report, it was “impossible to raise $2,500 for such purpose, and therefore the whole plan for an exhibit was abandoned and the allotted space surrendered.”

Although things did not go according to the original plan, the Congress met starting on July 19, 1893 in the Memorial Art Institute, at the foot of Adams Street. About 300 fraternity members attended the morning session. Among the papers read were several by Phi Delta Theta members. These included talks on the histories of fraternities, fraternity catalogs and fraternity finances. In the afternoon, there was a meeting of fraternity magazine editors. J.E. Brown, Editor of Phi Delta Theta’s Scroll, read a paper on “The ethics of loyalty in relation to fraternity journalism.” Phi Delta Theta’s reporter noted that more Phi Delts took part in the morning and afternoon sessions than any other fraternity.

At 5 p.m., the women’s fraternities gave a reception at the New York State Building. The building was crowded with fraternity men and women proudly wearing their badges. The Scroll reported:

The chief competition in yells and songs was between Phi Delta Theta, Delta Kappa Epsilon, and Beta Theta Pi, who had more men present than any of the other fraternities. ‘Phi Delta Theta All Revere’, ‘Hail Phi Delta Theta’ and ‘Phi Delta Theta for Aye’ were lustily sung by the more than 50 Phis present. Brother Swope led in singing and yelling: we doubt if he is over his consequent hoarseness, yet. The various fraternity clans got together and marched around in lock-step lines, and such strains as ‘Phi-Phi-Phi-Kei-A’ and “Dee-Dee, Dee-Kay-E!’ marked the accompaniment. Finally a Pan-Hellenic circle was formed and the joint singing was begun by Brother Swope starting, ‘There’s a hole at the bottom of the sea,’ the famous song of our Bloomington convention. After the college songs, the crowd went to the music pavilion on the lakefront, where the band played college airs.”

New York State Building at the 1893 Columbian Exposition. On July 19, 1893, a banquet was served at 7:30 p.m. in the building and dancing followed. A Panhellenic reception took place in this building on the next evening.

The morning session of July 20 was devoted to women’s fraternities. Ellen Martin Henrotin welcomed the crowd to the room at the Art Institute. Although it does not appear she was a fraternity woman, she was very active in the women’s club movement. There were addresses by representatives from Kappa Kappa Gamma, Gamma Phi Beta, Delta Gamma, Delta Delta Delta, Alpha Phi, and Pi Beta Phi. Among the topics presented were the origin and development of the fraternity system, fraternity journalism, chapter houses, limitations in fraternity membership, fraternity extension, and fraternity women in the world. Gertrude Boughton Blackwelder, an 1875 graduate of the University of Kansas and a charter member of the Pi Beta Phi chapter there, read a paper on the “Ethical influences of fraternities.” It was later published in several fraternity magazines.

A social meeting of the women’s fraternity officers was held in the afternoon, and a Panhellenic reception was held in the New York State Building in the evening.

Several organizations held their conventions in Chicago that summer and others arranged for a hospitality room for their membership. Phi Delta Theta had a corner room on the third floor of a building at the southwest corner of Jackson and Franklin Streets, and 420 Phi Delts signed the guest book. Kappa Alpha Theta,  Delta Gamma, Gamma Phi Beta and Delta Delta Delta had a fraternity booth in the Organization room of the Women’s Building. The booth provided a resting place for fraternity women and a there was a guest book for members to sign.

It would be almost nine years before the women’s fraternities called another meeting. They would gather again in Chicago, at the request of Alpha Phi. And the third time was the charm! The National Panhellenic Conference would come into its own and begin the process of interfraternal cooperation among the women’s organizations.

Oh, to have been a fly on the wall at those early meetings!

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Making the Impossible the Inevitable

I’m not sure what day it is, and frankly, at some points in the day, I can’t recall the year, but being at the Pi Beta Phi Leadership Institute has been the highlight of my summer. Pi Phi’s convention is in the odd-numbered year and I have been green with envy viewing the social media of my GLO friends. And while this is not a convention, it is more than enough to fill my Pi Phi cup.

This is the second Pi Beta Phi Leadership Institute. Both have been held at Washington University in St. Louis, about 10 miles from Pi Phi’s HQ. This year, there are two sessions. The focus is not on learning about the fraternity, but more on helping the women learn the steps to making the impossible the inevitable as they chart the road to their futures.

The facilitator taking the tour of the rooms where they will work with their Halo Huddles (small groups). Past Grand President Mary Tatum is at left.

The incomparable Erin Fischer (right) is the guiding light and her energy and enthusiasm are contagious. She inspires the women.

How could I not resist taking a morning walk through this gate and the neighborhood?

A morning walk through campus and a look at some of the Washington University fraternity houses.

A shout out to the best Halo Huddle!

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The Best Fraternities and Sororities to Join?

I dislike those “the best sororities with the most gorgeous houses” or the “top ten fraternities to join if you want to be President of the United States” posts on the web. They are bogus, likely click-bait, and serve no purpose other than to drive traffic to a website. Yet, excitement is building as things gear up for another academic year on college campuses across the country. At some, that means that fraternity and sorority recruitment time is near. Best wishes to the young men and women making decisions as to which organization to join. My advice is to make your own decision, free from the internet hype and ranking.

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Students have been making that decision for centuries. The world was much different in 1922, when the following paragraphs were written. Only a handful of college students had access to an automobile, few had grown up having their own bedroom and even less had their own private bath. There were no portable phones, televisions, handheld electronic devices, and the things that today’s college students consider necessities. And yet, the sentiments expressed by George Banta* in the July, 1922 issue of Banta’s Greek Exchange ring as true today as they did nearly a century ago:

One of the questions most frequently asked of us is as to which is the best fraternity. This most naive question is most often propounded to us by non-fraternity folks who are debating the choice of a fraternity. Rushing season also brings us such inquiries and these latter often take the form of asking us to decide definitely between two different fraternities or sororities. It is no uncommon thing in the autumn for us to receive telegrams which have manifestly found their inspiration in the fierce rushing on the campus.

It is not merely a question of the impropriety of our undertaking to decide such questions. Any opinion that the editor might harbor would be only his personal opinion. We have long ago learned that choice of a fraternity is a state of mind. There are those to whom the question of size is important; another prefers limitations and exclusiveness; one prefers that which is ancient; another that which is new and plastic and gives opportunity for individual activity, and, it may be for a fight. So, there is with us a great deal bigger reason for not trying to make such distinctions than mere impropriety. It is simply impossible. We do not know which is the best, and we have long ago come to doubt whether there is any ‘best.’ We feel that we might as well undertake to decide between the relative value to the community of the two neighbors who live beside us, one to the north and one to the south. We ourselves prefer our own family simply because it is our own. And we find that each of our two neighbors prefers his family for exactly the same reason. And there you are.

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*George Banta was a Phi Delta Theta and a Delta Gamma. Yes, he was an initiated member of Delta Gamma and he brought Delta Gamma to the northern states. He was also a dedicated proponent of fraternity life. 

George Banta, Phi Delta Theta and Delta Gamma

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A Beta Beau, Circa 1870s

A young woman with wistful eyes. Who was she? Whatever became of her? Did she become a Beta wife? I do not know is the answer to those questions. But for a time, this picture indicates she had a beau who was a member of Beta Theta Pi. And perhaps that beau was wearing her pin in a photo somewhere. There was a time when the giving of fraternity pins/emblems/badges might have been a two-way street. When a man would give a woman his fraternity pin, she might reciprocate.

In the 1870s, the Constitution of Pi Beta Phi (then known by its original name I.C. Sorosis) included a penalty for the “loaning” of it arrow to those not members of the organization. The minute books of the chapter at Simpson College show instances of fines imposed for the “loaning” of arrows.  

The minutes of the May 16, 1876 meeting, noted, “Miss Noble fined for exchanging badges. Fined Miss Barker for letting a Delta wear an I.C. pin.”  There was also a complaint “against Miss Alice Scoles for allowing a Delta to wear her I.C. Pin. The lady pleaded guilty, but as she was ignorant of the rules…it was thought best to excuse the lady this time.”

The minutes of the May 18, 1879 meeting of the Pi Phi chapter at Iowa State University reported that it was moved and seconded that any chapter member who lent “her pin to anyone outside of the society shall forfeit her pin to the society. Amended by saying shall forfeit it for one month. Amendment carried. Motion as amended carried.”

A November 1881 meeting of the Pi Phi chapter at Simpson College noted that the chapter would ask all the Delta Tau Delta men to return all the arrow pins in their possession.

(FYI – This photo was found in Iowa. I do not know if the woman in the photo is member of a GLO. It was the Beta pin that attracted me to it.)

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Goats and Goating in Early Sorority History

I was recently asked about the significance of “the goat” in sorority history. The long, thesis type answer is complicated, but suffice to say, goats show up regularly in the lore of sororities from the 1870s until about the 1930s, when searching through the literature of the sororities. 

Goats personified the hazing which often surrounded joining a sorority in those early years. And the same can be said of many organizations of the time, including men’s fraternities. I recall reading the history of a state P.E.O. chapter where the B.I.L.s (husbands and sweethearts) provided housing for the chapter’s goat. This is the nickel answer to her question about goats.

“Riding the goat,” whether a real goat, a mechanical one, or just the threat of one, was an often heard phrase. “Goat” also referred to the member herself and “goating” sometimes referenced personal service (making beds, carrying books, etc.) that a prospective or new member was expected to perform. Toasts to “The Goat” were often included in banquets and at conventions. Songs and poems about “The Goat” were included in song books and materials.

This goat figurine, about six inches tall from hoof to top of head, was recently donated to the Pi Beta Phi archives. It belonged to a Hillsdale College alumna who was initiated in the early 1900s. Those are wine and blue ribbons around the goat’s neck.

Chicago Tribune, October 5, 1892 article about the Kappa Kappa Gamma chapter at Northwestern University and two goats.

The January 1893 Chi Phi Chakett reported on this incident, too, but used the Chicago Herald version of the story:

College girls tried to ride the goat in Evanston last night and disaster followed. All this was at a session of the Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority at the Northwestern college. The occasion was the initiation into the mysteries of the order of the Misses Isabel Drew and Harriet St. Clair. This is the most sacred rite of the Fraternity and was to be made more than usually impressive by the participation in the exercises of two live billy goats which were stealthily conducted up the fire escape from the alley to the sorority chapter rooms during the early evening darknessHow far the ceremonies had proceeded before a startling finale is not known but suddenly the attendants on the kirmess being held just across Davis street from the Hong building where the sorority rooms are were startled by feminine screams and joined hurrying Evanston residents to the scene of the disturbance. As they reached the stairway to the sorority rooms the suppressed screams and exclamations of excited girls became plainer and suddenly into the startled crowd plunged a dozen college girls excited disheveled and with their attention and energies concentrated on the subjection of two goats which had broken away and plunged down the stairway dragging their would be captors into the midst of the crowd of curious spectators. Then all embargo was taken off the use of female lungs and with wild exclamations the members of Kappa Kappa Gamma covered their faces with their skirts and abandoning their goats fled precipitately up the stairway hastily terminated the initiation ceremonies and sought seclusion elsewhere.

In the exchanges section of Vol. 11-12 of The Anchora of Delta Gamma, there is a snippet that also refers to the above news item:

A writer upon fraternity life in the Northwestern University in the January Palm of Alpha Tau Omega thus sums up the sororities at that institution: ‘Upsilon Chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma is one of the strongest sororities in the university. The members are a studious set and are well represented in the literary world of Northwestern. There is an old, old story with which Kappa Kappa Gamma and a muscular William goat are intimately connected. They had secured the said animal for the purpose of making use of him in their dark and mysterious initiation rites, and the frolicsome goat, possessing a will of his own, secured his freedom by strategy, and before he was recaptured by the breathless members of the sorority nearly all Evanston was in an uproar. Since that happening it is claimed by many that the initials K. K. G. which adorn their frat-pins stand for Kant Kontrol Goat.

A song from an 1889 issue of The Key of Kappa Kappa Gamma

Another ode to the goat from an 1890s Anchora of Delta Gamma

The University of Colorado Delta Gamma chapter, in the same Anchora volume, included this reference to a mechanical goat:

Into this dainty case was slipped the menu-card, the front of which was adorned by a photograph of ‘our goat,’ that cute little arrangement which goes around on wheels, and gives vent to its feelings by a series of indescribable sounds whenever the string is pulled.

A mechanical goat, circa early 1900s. These are still available for purchase, in case anyone is wondering.

On February 2, 1889, 18 members of Alpha Phi’s Alpha Chapter at Syracuse University traveled to Cornell to install the chapter there. They brought with them:

the goat and other mysterious paraphernalia, with the purpose of giving to nine girls the initiatory ride. At twelve o’clock the initiative committee met the candidates at the Ithaca Hotel, where the dread rites were duly performed.

When Alpha Xi Delta celebrated its 20th anniversary as a chapter at Lombard College and its second anniversary as a national organization, Josephine Ericson presented a toast to “The Ruminating Goat” at the banquet.  The 1904-05 volume of The Quill of Alpha Xi Delta included multiple references to new members “meeting the goat.”

In addition, the magazines of other NPC organizations include similar references. In The Triangle of Sigma Sigma Sigma for the years 1909-11, the newly initiated members were called “goats.”

From The Themis of Zeta Tau Alpha

Alpha Chi Omega Goat Song, early 1900s

This toast takes up a number of pages in Vol. 8 of The Eleusis of Chi Omega

From the 1918-19 volume of The Themis of Zeta Tau Alpha

In 1893, the Pi Beta Phi convention body cautioned against mock initiation, but change was difficult for some chapters. By the 1920s, its Constitution and Statues prohibited any form of mock initiation, and a manual for the Pledge Supervisor, as she was then called, included this information:

Pi Beta Phi allows no pledge ‘Goating’ of any kind whatever and no requirement of any personal service for actives. Bed-making or book-carrying for actives is personal service and is not to be required by any active. You as Pledge Supervisor are responsible for seeing that the Constitutional ruling against ‘goating’ is kept both in letter and in spirit.

Volume 12 (1915-16) of To Dragma of Alpha Omicron Pi noted that its Kappa Chapter at Randolph Macon Woman’s College voted the previous year against “goating” because it was:

inconsistent with the serious purpose of our fraternity, but it is not out of style for the goats to still make up our beds and sweep around the house a little. We tell them they work so well we can’t possibly take them in for four months, but, really, by the time this is in print we shall have twelve new sisters in Alpha Omicron Pi

In the early 1920s, Sarah Blue, an inspector for Kappa Delta, spoke to the NPC chapters at Florida Women’s College. Her talk, according to a report in The Trident of Delta Delta Delta, focused on the NPC chapters working together to foster a greater Panhellenic spirit. Moreover, she discouraged “goating.”

The goat seemed to disappear as life changed in the first half of the 1900s, especially in the years between two world wars and in the face of the great depression. Or so the National/Grand Council of the NPC and AES groups tried to make the term obsolete, as evidenced by Pi Phi’s edict referenced above. However, the term “goat” still rears its head now and then. A reader referenced the “Goat Show” at George Washington University in the 1960s and another remembers hearing fraternity pledges referred to as “goats” in the 1980s at the University of Missouri.

In the 2000s, calling someone a GOAT became a way of saying “Greatest Of All Time.”

 

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#4 Gehrig, Phi Delt, and #30 Coolidge, Fiji, for the Fourth

Three U.S. Presidents, John Adams, Thomas Jefferson, and James Monroe died on the fourth of July, but only one, John Calvin Coolidge, Jr., was born on this day. The year was 1872 and the place was Plymouth Notch, Vermont. As a student at Amherst College in Massachusetts, he became a member of Phi Gamma Delta.

While working as a lawyer in nearby Northampton, he met Grace Goodhue, a Pi Beta Phi and recent graduate of the University of Vermont. She was working at the Clarke School for the Deaf. The two married in the Goodhue family home in Burlington, Vermont.

Coolidge was proud of his Phi Gamma Delta affiliation and he and his wife were the first President and First Lady to have been initiated into GLOs as college students. George W. and Laura Bush are the only other pair to make that claim.

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On July 4, 1939, “Lou Gehrig Appreciation Day,” at Yankee Stadium, the Iron Horse’s number was retired. Gehrig, a Phi Delta Theta, played in 2130 consecutive games, a record which took decades to break. And all of those games were played on one team.

He seemed to be having a little trouble in the last half of the 1938 season and after he collapsed at spring training in 1939, he visited the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. On June 19, his 36th birthday, after almost a week of testing, he received the diagnosis. His difficulties with motor function were caused by Amyotrophic Lateral  Sclerosis (ALS). He died June 2, 1941. Today, ALS is better known as Lou Gehrig’s disease.

There was a packed house at Yankee Stadium, when Gehrig gave his heartfelt farewell speech:

For the past two weeks you have been reading about the bad break I got. Yet today, I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of the earth. I have been in ballparks for seventeen years and have never received anything but kindness and encouragement from you fans.

When you look around, wouldn’t you it consider it a privilege to associate yourself with such as fine looking a man as is standing in uniform today.

Look at these grand men. Which of you wouldn’t consider it the highlight of his career just to associate with them for even one day?

Sure, I’m lucky. Who wouldn’t consider it an honor to have known Jacob Ruppert; also the builder of baseball’s greatest empire, Ed Barrow; to have spent six years with that wonderful little fellow Miller Huggins; then to have spent the next nine years with that outstanding leader, that smart student of psychology—the best manager in baseball today—Joe McCarthy! Sure I am lucky.

When the New York Giants, a team you would give your right arm to beat, and vice versa, sends you a gift— that’s something. When everybody down to the groundskeepers and those boys in white coats remember you with trophies—that’s something.

When you have a wonderful mother-in-law who takes sides with you in squabbles with her own daughter, that’s something. When you have a father and a mother who work all their lives so that you can have an education and build your body, it’s a blessing! When you have a wife who has been a tower of strength and shown more courage than you dreamed existed, that’s the finest I know.

So I close in saying that I might have been given a bad break; but I have an awful lot to live for!

 

Since 1955, Phi Delta Theta has presented the Lou Gehrig Memorial Award to the MLB player who exemplifies Gehrig’s spirit and character. A plaque commemorating the winners is located at the Baseball Hall of Fame and Museum in Cooperstown, NY. Additionally, Phi Delta Theta has a partnership with the ALS Association. Individual Phi Delt chapters raise funds for the Association and each chapter is encouraged to connect with the local ALS Association chapters to assist area residents afflicted with the disease. 

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