Fraternity History & More

Miss America 2020 will be chosen tomorrow, Thursday, December 19. More than a third of the state winners are sorority women. I think it’s a win for all of us if a sorority woman wins.

A friend asked if I saw this ad for ancestry.com. She knew it was right up my alley. My best guess is that her grandmother was a Delta Sigma Epsilon and she’s a Delta Zeta. If anyone has proof of the affiliations, please let me know. Thanks.

Congratulations to Mr. Brees!

Do we decorate our trees with our organization’s ornaments? Of course we do!

Lu Ann Riegl Daniel’s collection of official Tri Delta ornaments

Caitlin Mae’s Tri Sigma tree

Lambda Chi Alpha Ornaments

One of Susan Norman’s Delta Zeta ornaments

Nann Blaine Hilyard’s Alpha Gamma Delta ornaments

Raggedy Ann Hannah, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Heather Wilson Miller’s Pi Phi tree

Bonnie Myshrall’s ornaments

Franci Rocco Bayes’ Zeta Tau Alpha tree. The topper is a crown.

Chi Omega

Heather Wilson Miller’s Pi Phi angel ornament

Ellen Wenzel’s squirrel tree

Karen Gunther’s tree topper made by her mother. The angel has an arrow and a wine and silver blue dress. – Pi Beta Phi

Dana Moreland’s Alpha Omicron Pi ornament

Wanda Barton Yeatts was housemother at the Delta Zeta chapter at the University of Georgia where this was the chapter’s tree.

Wanda Barton Yeatts’ Delta Zeta tree

Leanne Sim Nickel’s Delta Gamma ornaments

Chi Omega

Christopher Radko anchor Santa, c. 1995 – Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Toni Clark Fletcher, Alpha Delta Pi

Toni Clark Fletcher, Alpha Delta Pi

Bonnie Myshrall’s ornaments

Toni Clark Fletcher, Alpha Delta Pi

Delta Gamma ornament – moon with Hannah fishing with an anchor. Custom made by J. Brandt, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Beverly Hatcher’s ornament from her Alpha Omicron Pi chapter at the University of Toledo. She also has lots of panda and rose ornaments.

Anchor purchased at a Delta Gamma Convention, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Chi Omega

Dana L. Moreland’s Alpha Omicron Pi tree

Alpha Gamma Delta

Caroline Cardwell’s Chi Omega tree

Modern day glass anchor, from a Delta Gamma ornament exchange, reverses to clipper ship, c. 2003, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Cotton batting anchor ornament, c. 1895 – Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Chi Omega

Football Dresden candy container signed by players from Albion College in Michigan (1921-24) and also by their girlfriends, all of whom were Delta Gammas from Zeta Chapter-Albion. Tag attached has embossed Greek Delta Gamma letters. It has been sent to the Delta Gamma Archives, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Pi Beta Phi

Chi Omega

Tara Wheeler Prather’s squirrel tree

Ceramic anchor commemorating a year as a Delta Gamma Field Consultant (CDC), courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Chi Omega

Blown glass anchor, c. 1910-20 – Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Chi Omega

Hand painted ivorine anchor, c. 1900 – Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Chi Omega

Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Chi Omega

An angel given to Fran Becque by Evelyn Peters Kyle, early 1990s – Pi Beta Phi

Margaret Furlong anchor angel – Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Chi Omega

Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

“This angel was given to me by my Grandmother as a child. She had the ornaments made for her granddaughters ( all who later followed her footsteps and joined Pi Phi) she is joined by other angels collected over the years on my angel tree.” Annemarie Long Wilson

Elisabeth Long Young’s angel ornament from her Grandmother Long (a charter member of the University of Louisville chapter).

Cotton batting anchor, c. 1890 – Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Hannah and her anchor – Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

Anchor ornament – c.1860 – Delta Gamma, courtesy of Staige Davis Hodges

KA Sullivan

KA Sullivan, a gift from a Grand Council member when KA was on Council.

KA Sullivan’s first Theta Phi Alpha ornament

Centennial ornament belonging to KA Sullivan

Alpha Delta Pi ornaments

KA Sullivan

Marla Schroeder’s angel and arrow tree

Sharon Kern Wiechman’s Alpha Omicron Pi tree

Julie Dunn Eichenberg’s Gamma Phi house

Julie Dunn Eichenberg’s Gamma Phi Beta tree

Linda Miller Murphy’s Pi Phi and P.E.O. tree

A sampling of some of the official Phi Mu ornaments offered through the Fraternity. Some dating back to the late 80’s/early 90’s. Two limited edition ornaments were created through a partnership with Radko and remain cherished keepsakes for many of our members.

Kathy Stebleton Schultz‘s Kappa Alpha Theta tree

My thanks to Carolyn McFarland Hunter, Staige Davis Hodges,  Keri Smathers Pye, Lisa Tegels, Karen Chevalier, Karen Gunther, Nann Blaine Hilyard, Ellen Wenzel, and Penny Procter, Amy Novara Murphy, Logan Tootel, Sally Belknap, Deb Scarlett, Ronda Doane Deer, Jessica Strange, Shelly Sheehy Troll, Rene Matz Thompson, Annemarie Long Wilson, Bonnie Myshrall, Dana Moreland, Beverly Hatcher, Ellen Wenzel, LuAnn Riegl Daniel, KA Sullivan, Elisabeth Long Young, Tara Wheeler Prather, Sharon Kern Wiechman, John Tilden, Charlie Ball, Caroline Cardwell, Sherri Bledsoe Halford, Nikki Selander Heyd, Kristin Windeshausen Henkenius, Marla Schroeder, Eryn Lynn Hackett Fisher, Linda Miller Murray, Julie Dunn Eichenberg, Lynn Storlien McGraw, Kathy Stebleton Schultz, Jane Horlings, Robin White Fanning, Tori Clark Fletcher, Franci Rocco Bayes, Susan Norman, Heather Wilson Miller, Lisa Gebken Thibault, Karen Ann Yaksich Kurlander, Leanne Sim Nickel, Wanda Barton Yeatts, Ginger Hicks Smith, Kelly Brest van Kampen, Caitlin Mae, Lu Ann Riegl Daniel

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© Fran Becque, www.fraternityhistory.com, 2013. All Rights Reserved.

“Wish I felt better about my own chapter which is now on probation. Received a letter from Nat’l regarding that. So sad!” That message was on a holiday car in yesterday’s mail. The card’s cover had “joy” written on it, but my friend’s note about her chapter was anything but joyful. Her organization and her chapter doesn’t matter. She knows that I advocate for GLOs and wanted me to know that she was hurting about her chapter’s fate. Truth be told, it’s getting harder and harder to advocate for GLOs when members do not understand how their actions reflect on all of us.

My friend initiated in the 1950s. In the six decades since her initiation she has treasured her membership. I know plenty of sorority volunteers, but my friend isn’t one of them. She’s one of the rank and file members who love and support, but never served as an inter/national volunteer. I say this only to provide evidence that when some members – or maybe the entire chapter – through their actions or their neglect place the chapter’s existence in jeopardy, it hurts all the way down the line.

Living in the chapter house is one of her treasured memories. I recall a conversation we had when she visited the house a few years ago. She said it was like going back in time to a favorite place. As she stood in the front hall, memories flooded her, she said.

Those of us whose chapters no longer exist know where we were when we heard the news that our chapter would or had closed. Certainly it’s a little more tolerable when one receives a letter or email rather than have the fact splashed on the news because of a particularly egregious crime. No one wants to know that the current members of one’s chapter have no regard for human life or the care and concern to get medical attention for a member. Or have no idea about the bounds of public decency.

I often tell the collegiate members I speak with that they are one little link on a very long chain. A chain is only as strong as its weakest link. They need to value and respect those who came before them and they need to be cognizant of those who will come after them. It is each current member’s responsibility – a responsibility they chose to accept willingly when they chose to become a member – to leave the organization better than they found it.

I think about what to tell my friend when I send her a holiday card. Knowing nothing of her chapter’s affairs I suppose I could go internet digging, but I will not. I will tell her I hope the chapter follows through on putting it back in good standing. Learning from one’s mistakes is a valuable lesson. We can hope that the chapter members truly learn something from this episode.

Sorority woman in Miss Universe Top Twenty

Last night, Cindy Marina, Miss Albania, made it to the top 20 in the Miss Universe contest. Marina is a volleyball player for the University of Southern California. She initiated into the Pi Beta Phi chapter at Duke University and affiliated with the chapter at USC when she transferred. Zozibini Tunzi, Miss South Africa, is the newly crowned Miss Universe 2019.

An afternoon spent watching Harper Lee’s book come to life

One of my P.E.O. sisters is supportive of the arts and she always brings tickets to local productions as her auction item in support of P.E.O. projects. I tend to win the items because I usually bid higher than face value. We used the tickets yesterday afternoon to see SIU Theater’s production of Harper Lee’s To Kill a Mockingbird. Lee was a Chi Omega. The production was adapted by Christopher Sergel and it was directed by our friend and fellow Rotarian Segun Ojewuyi. It was an excellent performance. Kudos to all involved!

I suspected she was a sorority woman and I was right!

As I sat in the car waiting for my husband, I flipped through Life and Style of Southern Illinois, a slick magazine that comes quarterly with our newspaper subscription. I read this paid advertorial (that is a real thing, apparently) and was certain the doctor is a sorority woman. And she is! Dr, Kelli Webb, a plastic surgeon in southern Illinois, is a Sigma Kappa and an Order of Omega member. She includes that information on her official bio. I thank her for being a proud sorority woman!

I’d bet she was one of the Top 25 Seniors her graduation year, but I couldn’t find that info anywhere. SIUC you might want to take a clue from the University of Illinois and put those lists of Top 25 Seniors somewhere where people can see them, just like the Bronze Tablets.

Alpha Omicron Pi was founded on January 2, 1897, at the home of Helen St. Clair (Mullan). She and three of her Barnard College friends, Stella George Stern (Perry), Jessie Wallace Hughan, and Elizabeth Heywood Wyman had pledged themselves to the organization on December 23, 1896. That first pledging ceremony took place in a small rarely used upstairs room in the old Columbia College Library.

Celebrating a Founders’ Day on the second day of the new year proved to be a challenge for the organization, so Alpha Omicron Pi now celebrates Founders’ Day on December 8, Stella George Stern Perry’s birthday.

Alpha Omicron Pi’s second chapter was halfway cross the country and to the south, 1,300 miles away from Manhattan. Stella contacted Evelyn Reed, a classmate from New Orleans. Evelyn’s sister, Katherine, was a student at H. Sophie Newcomb Memorial College.

On September 8, 1898, Katherine Reed became the first pledge of the Pi Chapter at Newcomb College. Not only was it Alpha Omicron Pi’s second chapter, but it was also the second women’s fraternity at Newcomb. A Pi Beta Phi’s  chapter was established in 1891. “The little Greek community at Newcomb was very delightfully entertained at a charmingly original birthday party, given by the Alpha Omicron Pi girls, to celebrate the first anniversary of the founding of their chapter,” reported the Pi Phi chapter in the January 1900 Arrow of Pi Beta Phi.

Years later, Perry reflected on the founding of Pi Chapter and the differences between the institution in New Orleans and the one at which AOPi was founded, Barnard in New York City. She said:

If Alpha Omicron Pi can bring a closer connection between the beauty and kindliness of the Newcomb spirit, and the sane bluff stability that marks colleges farther North and West we shall do a good work in making the sweetness of the one a little more filled with the light of common sense and the light of the other a little softer with the sweetness of courtesy.

On December 5, 1776, five College of William and Mary students founded the Phi Beta Kappa Society. The first meeting of the organization took place in the Old Raleigh Tavern’s Apollo Room.

As the first Greek-letter collegiate society, it led the way for the other organizations, both social and honorary, which followed it. Among its hallmarks were a badge, an oath of secrecy, a Greek motto, an initiation ceremony, and a handshake. Phi Beta Kappa’s motto is “Love of learning is the guide of life.”

The chapter at the College of William and Mary might have been a footnote in history had it not been for Elisha Parmele, a former Yale College student and Harvard College alumnus. While in Williamsburg, he became associated with Phi Beta Kappa and obtained charters from the society to establish chapters at Harvard and Yale. When William and Mary faced a temporary closure in 1781, prior the British invasion, the Phi Beta Kappa chapter disbanded. However, Parmele had used the charters to establish the chapter at Yale in 1780 and one at Harvard in 1781. The Dartmouth chapter was founded in 1887 and the society became an honorary academic association.

Parmele became a minister; in those days, most Yale and Harvard grads pursued the ministry. He died at the age of 31. The most lasting accomplishment in his short life was likely establishing those two Phi Beta Kappa chapters in New England.

The first two women to become Phi Beta Kappa members were University of Vermont Kappa Alpha Thetas. In 1875, Lida Mason and Ellen Hamilton Woodruff became the first of many fraternity women who have been members of the organization. The first Phi Beta Kappa chapter at a women’s college was established in 1893 at Vassar College.

From November 27-December 1, 1951, the National Panhellenic Conference (NPC) met in Williamsburg. Edith Reese Crabtree, Kappa Kappa Gamma, served as chairman. Alpha Phi Margaret Hutchinson served as secretary and Delta Gamma Mavis Mann was treasurer.

The 11 associate members – Alpha Epsilon Phi, Phi Sigma Sigma, Delta Phi Epsilon, Sigma Delta Tau, Theta Phi Alpha, Alpha Sigma Alpha, Alpha Sigma Tau, Delta Sigma Epsilon, Pi Kappa Sigma, Sigma Sigma Sigma, and Theta Sigma Upsilon – were admitted to full membership. Thus, NPC took on its modern face. The total number of NPC members was 31 (today it is 26 due to several mergers).

On December 1, the delegates gathered into Phi Beta Kappa Hall at the College of William and Mary. They were there to commemorate the 175th anniversary of Phi Beta Kappa’s founding on December 5, 1776. The Phi Beta Kappa Hall that the delegates visited is not the one that exists today on the campus; the one they visited was built in 1926. On December 29, 1953, a fire destroyed the auditorium. It was rebuilt and the building is now known as Ewell Hall.

December first harkens to the end of the fall semester and the holiday break at most colleges and universities. For three GLOs, it also marks the day on which the organizations were founded.

Lambda Theta Alpha Latin Sorority, Inc. and Lambda Theta Phi Latin Fraternity, Inc. were both founded at Kean University in New Jersey in 1975. Sigma Lambda Upsilon/Señoritas Latinas Unidas Sorority, Inc., was founded at Binghamton University in upstate New York in 1987.

According to the Lambda Theta Alpha website, Kean introduced bilingual and Latino/Caribbean studies in 1975. Seventeen women talked about forming a sorority for Latina women. They wanted an organization which would “integrate itself into the social, political and community service arena.” The sorority’s purpose is:

to provide a sisterhood based on unity, love and respect in an effort to foster the development of strong leaders who will then provide and practice political, social and cultural activities. It shall also be the purpose of Lambda Theta Alpha to promote unity through charitable and educational programs, maintain a higher standard of learning and serve as a voice for all students. 

Lambda Theta Phi honors two Kean faculty/administrators who played integral roles in the founding of the organization. These men, Cayetano J. Socarrás, Ph.D., and  José A. Quiles, Ph.D., are the Fraternal Fathers who mentored and guided the 14 Founding Fathers.

Sigma Lambda Upsilon/Señoritas Latinas Unidas Sorority, Inc., provides “sisterhood and support while also promoting academic achievement, service to the community, leadership, and cultural enrichment.”

Delta Delta Delta was founded at Boston University on November 28, 1888. It fell on the day before Thanksgiving that year, just as it does in 2019. Founders’ Day is celebrated on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. Its founders are Sarah Ida Shaw (Martin), Eleanor Dorcas Pond (Mann, M.D.), Florence Stewart and Isabel Breed.

In the fall of 1888, the four women seniors who had not joined any of the women’s fraternities then at Boston University (Kappa Kappa Gamma, Alpha Phi, and Gamma Phi Beta) discussed their situation. Pond talked to Shaw and they decided to start a society of their own. Pond suggested that they use a triple Greek letter and Shaw chose the Greek letter Delta. Shaw and Pond threw themselves into the details associated with the founding, with Shaw masterminding most of it. All was finished by Tuesday of Thanksgiving week but the two met again on Wednesday afternoon. In the Philological Library at the top of the college building. Shaw and Pond embraced and said “Tri Delta is founded.”

Shaw and Pond were intent and ultimately successful in  getting the other two unaffiliated seniors, Florence Stewart and Isabel Breed, to join their organization. All four are considered founders.

The second Tri Delta chapter came about through the efforts of Etta May Budd who was in Boston studying art. She boarded at the Young Women’s Christian Association and there met Josephine Centre, an early initiate of the Alpha Chapter. Budd, who then became a member of the Alpha Chapter, belonged to two local organizations, one at Simpson College in Indianola, Iowa, and another at Iowa State University in Ames, Iowa.

The organization Budd belonged to at Simpson College was called L.F.V. It stood for “Lovers of Fun And Victory,” but the college men called them “Light Footed Virgins.” L.F.V. was founded in 1871 and by 1889, it had 95 members. On April 25, 1889, nine L.F.V. members signed pledges to become members of Delta Delta Delta. A charter was secured and L.F.V. became the Delta Deuteron Chapter of Delta Delta Delta. An initiation followed on May 10, 1889. In 1897, it became known as the Delta chapter when the first national convention changed the system of naming chapters.

As she had done with the local organization to which she had belonged at Simpson College, Budd attempted to bring the local organization she had founded at Iowa State University, U.D.T. into the Delta Delta Delta fold. In May 1889, she returned to Iowa State with a charter for the local organization. There was much anti-fraternity sentiment on campus and U.D.T. had been forced to disband. Budd organized another group to have the Delta Delta Delta charter and was successful in 1890. However due to the continuing anti-fraternity sentiment, that charter was surrendered two years later. Fourteen members were initiated and two pledged before the charter was returned. Ultimately, the chapter was reestablished on September 21, 1912.

In 1889, the Epsilon chapter of Delta Delta Delta became the second women’s fraternity at Knox College. Kappa Beta Theta was a local organization founded in 1888 by sisters Patsie and Ola Ingersoll. It was formed with the intention of securing a charter from a national women’s fraternity.  Beta Theta Pi had a chapter at Knox College and a Knox Beta told his brother, who was a member of the Beta Theta Pi chapter at Boston University. The Boston University Beta gave the information to his friend, Delta Delta Delta founder Sarah Ida Shaw. 

Correspondence between Shaw and the Knox College women resulted in a Tri Delta charter being granted on July 9, 1889.  A member of the Simpson College chapter, Hattie Berry, initiated the chapter in August 1889, at the home of one of the charter members, Alta March. A reception was held at the Phi Gamma Delta Hall at Knox College. Shaw later noted that the “Galesburg girls refused to have Gamma (as a chapter name) because they considered the letter hideous in form and sound, so it was given to the second in the province, Adrian (College), which came in only six months later.”

Tri Delta was represented at the 1891 meeting of seven organizations in Boston at the invitation of Kappa Kappa Gamma. When the seven groups met again in 1902 in Chicago at the invitation of Alpha Phi, Tri Delta became a founding member of the National Panhellenic Conference.

Phi Sigma Sigma’s was founded at Hunter College on November 26, 1913. Its ten founders are Lillian Gordon Alpern, Josephine Ellison Breakstone, Fay Chertkoff, Estelle Melnick Cole, Jeanette Lipka Furst, Ethel Gordon Kraus, Shirley Cohen Laufer, Claire Wunder McArdle, Rose Sher Seidman and Gwen Zaliels Snyder.

The organization was originally called Phi Sigma Omega, but it was discovered that the name was already in use. Five years transpired before a second chapter was installed. In 1918, the Beta Chapter at Tufts University was chartered. It came about because a friend of one of the founders expressed interest in the organization. A third chapter was founded at New York University.

Phi Sigma Sigma’s Theta Chapter was chartered in 1923 at the University of Illinois. It has among its alumnae Irna Phillips, considered the “mother of modern soap opera” and Tatyana McFadden, Paralympic Gold Medalist. Among the soap operas Phillips created are Guiding Light, As the World Turns, Days of Our Lives and Another World.

Kappa Kappa Gamma will turn 150 on October 13, 2020. On this Founders’ Day, the @MinnieStewartVan left from Monmouth to spend the year visiting Kappa Kappa Gammas across North America. I was lucky enough to visit the when it made a stop in the Saint Louis area.

What a treat it was to hear Kylie Smith’s voice on the virtual reality glasses narration and see her speaking in a video that played in the van. She is Kappa’s Archivist and a Past State President of Ohio State Chapter of the P.E.O. Sisterhood. Her vision to educate members about Kappa’s history came to life in such an outstanding manner. Kudos, Kylie and company!

Follow the van’s adventure’s on @MinnieStewartVan on Instagram and @KappaKappaGamma on Facebook.